I am having the most difficult time mingling with people I can never get anyone to follow up on dates I set. The most I get to have with a person is a short conversation. But honestly the problem might be me the only thing I really ever enjoyed doing was having sex. I need advice.
Well I must admit that I am a bit boring and dislike trying things im not good at but aren't there other things I can do with other people.
2006-12-11 12:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by rocko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the only thing you like doing is sex, might I suggest a career in the porn industry?
If you think you're boring, then you are. People read into how you perceive yourself and judge you accordingly. You might not have more meaningful relationships with people simply because you either don't want them or don't feel you deserve them or you're just too damned lazy to put that much effort into developing one. Just like life, friendships take work. If you have the attitude that if you're not good at it right away it's not worth pursuing, then you won't have any meaningful friendships unless they do all the work. To be honest, there aren't a lot of people out there who will give until they bleed just for one selfish guy's friendship.
2006-12-11 12:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by shoujomaniac101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girls arn't interested n u very much becuz they want more than sex in a relationship(most). N try new things that u don't kno if ur good or bad at n work on the things ur bad at...u can only get better. However, on the plus side u r honest n down 2 earth. now just show these girls u have confidence n try not 2 b lazy n have fun doing new things besides sex. Than girls should want more than a short conversation. Good Luck!
2006-12-11 20:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you need to re think you needs and how you go about getting them met, I agree that a man who's only interest is having sex, had better have a big wallet, or learn some social skills fast, or yes you life will continue to be miserable
2006-12-11 20:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you buddy what your problem is.
You are trying to understand women, right? See women like to talk and want you to be interested in them and not just jump in the sack. why don't you take them bowling? golfing?
Get outside and take a walk, I'd love to do those things.
2006-12-11 20:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
' Miserable. ' Don't sweat it. Only for this period in history. Then it changes. But not for everybody.
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( Good tool. )
2006-12-11 20:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋