My son and his wife divorced and within a month he met someone else and remarried 9 months later. I do love his new wife, but I miss the first one terribly. I'm very sensitive to other's pain, and it is hard for me to not cry when I think of her. I loved her so much. I don't know exactly what happened, but I know their goals in life were different and their families were different. (Hers were like the family from hell & ours is so close to each other due to tragedies in our lives.) My new daughter-in law says the right things, i.e. wants to spend time together, but that is it. She is more outgoing, successful in life, and says what she wants. The other is sensitive, quiet and hurt because of her family and how they treat others. We are much more alike. I love her very much and want to see her. But I don't want to hurt my new daughter-in-law. Any advice about how to not hurt/miss the first one anymore and about meeting with her? (No children involved.)
2006-12-07
16:34:53
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Diane B
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Marriage & Divorce