Man im so confused!?
Ok so me and this guy went out when i was 11 and we dated for a year. Well, then we broke up {because i cheated} and we have been friends ever since. Last week we taled on the phone all night. He came over today {he just left} and he kept calling me babes and wanted me to put a pic of him kissing my cheeck on my mpspace page. I think he dont want no one else talking to me. Then he tried kissing me. He even tells me he loves me. But i dont trust him because he lies sometimes. Then i told him that friends dont kiss and he was like " so what, close friends do" and we were aruing over that. But yet wehn i tell him we cant go back out again he says " we dont have to" Im only 15! Im just confused.. can anyone help me or have any suggestions? Thanks
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sorry for missspellings and by the way hes getting ready to turn 17 in may
2006-12-07 16:33:56 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What do YOU think, that's the question...and you have the answer.
If your answer is wrong then that's when you really learn a lesson because you have yourself to hold accountable, not someone else who nudged you into that direction...like us, huh?
Anyway, good luck. Make it happen.
2006-12-07 16:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by poethical 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know you should really try to talk to one of your parents they might just be able to help. I hope your on birth control cause you dont want to see whats really out side of mommy and daddys front door. You know the answer to your question. I dont think that you need anyone to tell you. But if you do.Heres what I think you should do is to find someone else if you have to have someone. Find some one that likes you for something else then what's between your legs. Have some fun but be careful. 15 years old, you have no idea how many woman at home right now living their lives thinking if they could go back to 15 again what they would do it differant. So I say follow your heart. Only you can live for you, that way when you get older you can be one of them that can say that you are proud of who you are and what you got out of life.
2006-12-08 00:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to get back at you for cheating it happened to my sister so be careful .... Tell him you don't want to be friends with benefits so if he can't understand that then you have to end your friendship but if he is truly your friend he will back off... Also there is spell check on top of the page for next time I am sooo bad at spelling I use it all the time....
2006-12-08 01:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by parentsofbadmeandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cool to have a romance when you're young, but if it doesn't work then there's no bother in trying to keep it. Like you said you're 15, you'll have many more years to have something serious. Time goes by fast, especially when you're young and there's no need in being stressed over a relationship.
2006-12-08 00:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by chase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont sweat it he is not the one for you any way wait until you get older and more mature i wish that i would of because at the age of seventeen i had a baby boy named sean and now im eighteen an strugling just to get by dont make my mistakes live life the way that you want to get your education first before thinking of any boy trust learn from this
2006-12-08 00:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by flower_1988_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give is, "stick to your gut instincts". Don't let him pressure you. You are so young and you should be out in the dating world instead of being tied down.
I hope this helps.
Good Luck.
2006-12-08 00:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my best friend.
But you are indeed only 15 - itake alook at your feelings - would you like to be going out with him again? If so, then persue it. If not, then now is the time to make it clear you are only willing to be friends.
Most of all, take your time; if he's pressuring you, tell him to back off.
2006-12-08 00:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him. I can't believe an 11 year old knows how to cheat. That's just funny.
2006-12-08 01:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not going to like this advice, but...
I would say that if you're 15, don't put any pictures of yourself on your MySpace page, period. That site attracts freaks and perverts.
2006-12-08 00:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad guys dont change they just learn new ways of messing with your mind hes playing games with you why i dont know. im sure you other things going on in your life so dont bother trying to figure it out it is only a waste of time. move on
2006-12-08 00:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋