I met this lady (from Sri Lanka - fine by me by the way!) at the bus stop about 3 years ago (she lives a couple of streets away from me). We've been out together socially twice (my iniation). I usually only see her say once every 6 weeks or so, but when I do see her, she always has some remark. Once, another friend of mine and I went to see a ballet and when I told this Sri Lankan lady, she said, "Typical English interest is ballet". I said nothing in response. On another occasion, she said to me, "You get everything on a plate". To pre-judge me like this is not on. She knows nothing about my insecure/unstable background in which to pass judgment. What should I say/do? If I do get as she quotes "everything on a plate", it's only because I've had to do all the hard work myself without any support and I make the most of myself.
2006-11-21
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