I am a 40yom that's been married for 18 years; although I love my wife... my relationship is not without its fair share of problems. Over the course of our married both my wife and I have had an affair (mine emotional 14y ago, hers physical 5y ago) while I understand that neither of these affairs carry any greater weight than the other, I have truly learned to love my wife all over again and in many ways with even greater depth. I have long time forgiven her and I no longer hold her affair against her, and I don’t live in the past (although I feel she does). We are both charismatic people and often speak with people of the opposite sex (work or socially) for which I was comfortable until today. I am starting to see Familiar signs of the past. While I shower her with love she dose not receive it and says she fells empty. I am not involved with any one but she has for 10 accused me of having an affair with some one. The accusations and Familiar Things are wearing on me HELP.
2006-11-19
13:33:41
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Marriage & Divorce