Hi, I am a 24 yr old guy with lust problem. Since 16, I have always been highly interested in opposite sex. But as a Christian, and due to personal belief, I decided to save virginity till marriage.
Due to high hormone level and high interests in sexuality, I had to find some outlets to release tensions and hormones besides sex. Then I found porn/masturbation which addressed it. At the time, I saw nothing harmful about porn/mb and thought it was all normal thing to do, especially for a teenage guy like me.
About 2 yrs ago, I finally started to feel harmful effect of porn. I would have hard time controlling myself from porn. I also fantasize a lot about sex scenes and hot women I saw from porn videos. My brain has become so sexualized that I think about sex a lot.
Some say this is all normal because most guys think about sex every 10 seconds. But I feel this is wrong. This goes against my belief, moral values deep inside my heart.
How can I gradually reduce sexual thoughts?
2006-11-18
14:07:02
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