My boyfriend thinks I am too shy, so he broke up with me! I tried to tell him I'm not. Every friend I have did too, but for some reason he won't believe me or them. I told him I would talk to him and hang out with him more often but he still says I am too shy. What should I do?
2006-11-18 14:06:24 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a new boyfriend, you almost seem desperate for this guy
2006-11-18 14:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes many reasons to break up with someone. He did not break up with you because you are shy. If you were a brain surgeon, an olympic gold medalist, and beautiful physical features, I'm sure "shy" wouldn't be a qualifying characteristic for dating (just making a point).
So, whatever the real reason, he is not interested. Try to imagine some guy that you have no interest in trying to figure out why you won't go out with him. Do you really think you could give him the answer and you'd fall in love with him someday? ...Of course not. Well, it works the other way as well. Find someone that you are attracted to...and is attracted "to" you. It will be so much fun, you won't even think of this other guy...you know, what's his name again??? :)
Have a nice one.
P.S. He's out there. Just keep looking.
2006-11-18 22:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by navigate100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say he was looking for a reason to break up with you. So he picked one. It seem very obvious to you that he is interested in someone else more then likely or he wanted to be free to hang out with his friends more than he does now. One other reason could be his friends teasing him about you. Peer pressure even though it should never matter. Cause eventually you are all going to grow up and realize that things that happen in school don't follow along in the real world. Just move on find someone who will make you happy, or better yet why not live your life and discover what makes you happy. Then without even realizing it the guy who is living his will find you and together you will be happy. There is plenty of time it seems like to me.
2006-11-18 22:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by groundpilot43061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too shy??? In what way? Do you mean you won't have sex with him, so he says you are too shy and is breaking up with you because you won't give him any? If that's the case, LET HIM GO!
2006-11-18 22:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand he broke up with you because you are to shy. or is it that you will not go out with him because you are to shy what ever it is that is not a reason to break up you just need to be reassured and to feel safe but my you need some counselling but screw that a hole let him be. You get your butt out there and let him see you doing what he wanted and forget him.
2006-11-18 22:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect his answer isn't in fact the real reason. Try dumping him. There's too many decent people out there to waste your energy on someone who doesn't want you, whatever the reason.
2006-11-18 22:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is LAME...if he can't accept you for who you are...he is not worth it. There are a million fish in the sea...why waste your time one someone like him. I believe things happen for a reason...maybe there is just someone better out there.
2006-11-18 22:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if he labels you unfairly you are better off without him. Find someone who is as into you as you deserve. Best of luck!
2006-11-18 22:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's over. let him go. he was a crappy boyfriend. and in a few years if you're in a good relationship, he'll be kicking himself for being such a retard.
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Kelly
2006-11-18 22:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an excuse to me. Say goodbye and move on. He doesn't deserve you.
2006-11-18 22:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by jperk1941 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋