My husband is deployed, and i know that things are sooo stressfull and that he wants to be home and he really misses me and his family... i know he is upset that he cant be with me during our pregnancy, but he tends to just get really mad over nothing, like the fact that i spend hours at an army rec. center to be on the computer in hopes that i will be able to catch him on... i try very hard to deal with him and him "accusing" me of being unfaithful, but every time he does it, it gets harder and harder... i've even had to hang up on him many times, for the health of the baby i couldnt argue with him... i always end up feeling sooooo bad and like its all my fault and that i just wasnt being "good" enough to not make him mad... i lash out on him sometimes and act very mean to him when he does this.. but its the last way i want to act... i dont know how to deal with him though... i always am doing something to make him smile... so why does he lash out on me? and how do i handle it?
2006-11-10
02:11:48
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red.one9luv
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Marriage & Divorce