Two of my friends continuously bash each other for fun. How can I bring them together to co-exist peacefully and use their efforts against others instead of each other?
2006-11-10 02:11:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
BUt it is kinda fun isn't it?
2006-11-10 02:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by smtwtfs_2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some may never be able to co-exist. One thing I suggest is to tell each of them privately that the other is your friend, and you really don't want to hear the negative things they feel for them, because you care for them both. Then maybe try and talk about all of the good qualities each of them has to each other. I'm sure at first they won't want to hear it, but if they're your friend they'll come around. Maybe not start hanging out, but at least respect you enough to not bash the other one in front of you.
I wouldn't force an unwanted relationship between them, but I do know how you feel. You want everyone to get along and everyone to be able to hang out together, rather than them competing for your friendship, or who gets to make plans with you first for Friday night. I've been there. If they're mature enough, they'll adapt a little...give it time and good luck!
2006-11-10 10:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by circa 1980 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By just letting them be. There are no same two people in the world. Even twins have different traits, habits, because though they look very much alike thay are still two very different individuals. If all of us are nice or if all of us are bitchy then that would be less fun and exciting. Your freinds may have the most absurd way of showing their affection but nothing erases the fact that they are friends no matter what, no matter how different they are. So don't worry about it. You'll be surprised to find out that they actually see each other as best buddies.
2006-11-10 10:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by River Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how the world is no matter if you like it or not its gonna happen anyway everyone is different and have different opinons about things and see things differently then others. Just let it be thats their problem you worry bout what you're doing and it'll be fine =)
2006-11-10 10:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Banter, it makes the world go round.
If we all got and didn't compete at some level we would still be living in caves trying to get a fire going.
2006-11-10 11:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by madnesscon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both your friends, not each other's friends. (I'm assuming). Find out what their problems are w/ each other and see if you can help them to be friends.....if not....don't hang out w/ them together.
Some people rub other people the wrong way and sometimes that cannot be corrected.
2006-11-10 10:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGAINST others that don't sound like us all getting along to me lol.
2006-11-10 10:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Deano™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse to speak to either till a truce is called
2006-11-10 10:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, good luck with that. I ain't going to happen.
2006-11-10 10:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish we could, but unfortunately we all have different opinions and we all think our own are right.
2006-11-10 10:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way wont ever happen this is the USA nope wont happen
2006-11-10 10:13:28 · answer #11 · answered by Beth B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋