We have been married now for 7 months and have a very good relationship, we've both been very influentional in changing each others lives for the better. I have 2 children from a previous marriage, my kids love him dearly, especially my son. We do not have contact with my husband's girls because, 1-the relationship with the mother was really bad, 2-she cheated on him, 3-he doesn't even know if 1 of them is even his. We are seeing a lawyer today to see what we need to do so that my husband doesn't "get taken". She has and does get state assistance (that she hasn't always been entitled to) and now they want him to repay this because she has been lying to the state for they last 5 years. He wants paternity testing, but the judge may deni this because he signed the paternity affidavite in the hospital when they were born. He (and we) can't afford to pay insurance and child support on additional children. Call us bad people, but can he relinquish rights and not have to pay anything?
2006-11-08
03:28:11
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kitty
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