please help?

Question

I met this gorgeous girl at a barbacue at my cuzins 4 hours from were i live i went down in da summer. all my mates fancy her and i found out she liked me and wanted to go with me so that was ok i met her in town the next day and went to her house and she was all over me she said she loved me and kept sayin i was special and she never met anyone like me before she was movin a bit fast for me as i didnt have such strong feelings but i returned the comments anyway. the next day i had to go back home i said goodbye and we kept in contact throughout the year untill i went down to meet her again this summer she didnt seem as interested and i have fel in love with her i asked did she not fancy me any more and she said she thought i was really good lookin and we would probably go out if i lived down their but she said she was afraid of getting hurt because her last boyfriend cheated on her i was understanding and told her i would never do that to her.then i wanted to meet up again but for
weeks she told me she was at her cuzins and she would txt me when she got back but when she did txt back it was too late i had to go back home she said she was sorry but she was busy i said thats ok and started txtin her wen i got home. she replied with kisses but she never txts me anymore i have to txt her all the time and all she does is reply and say ill txt u soon but she never does i always have to txt her i dont no wats happenin last summer she was txtin me every day and i waz txtin her now this summer she says she is baby sitin and cant meet up even though im only down thre for about 3 weeks she keeps puttin me last and im sick of oit what shoul i do

should i keep txtin her and meetin up wit her when i go down there or what

Answer 1

dude, forget about her and move on to someone who is nice and actually has consideration for your feelings. xxxxx

Answer 2

I think everybody's been there babe! Best advice is probably to move on! The fact that you live far away is good, then you won't risk bumping into her. You can't base a relationship on you doing all the running and her just ignoring you! Who knows maybe a couple of years down the line you'll meet her again and things can start over! Maybe if you don't text her you'll be surprised one day! Good Luck whatever you do!

Answer 3

Seems like this girl is still hurting from her last boyfriend. She's not ready for a relationship yet. Its easy to keep txting you as there is no eye contact neither can read the other persons real feelings. Phone her to arrange a meeting in a public place/coffee bar ? etc. If she still does not want to see you, give up and move on. Hope it works out for you.

Answer 4

I'm sorry to say that she sounds like the type of girl who was in love with the notion of being in love. Why else would she have told you that she loved you on the first date? Now it sounds like she is avoiding you because she has lost interest or is seeing someone else. I wouldn't waste my time if I were you. You say she said you are good looking, I'm sure other girls see that also. Give some of the other girls a chance at romance with you and forget the one who is apparently putting you last.

Answer 5

Oh dear!! I'm sorry to say it but it sounds like you've missed the boat. She is not interested anymore, sorry to be blunt. She keeps putting you off coz she hasn't got the guts to tell you straight out or she doesn't wanna hurt you. i should know as I am female and i have played this game myself. You can do one of two things, grab the bull by the horns and ask her outright how she really feels about you or stop contacting her and move on. Good luck in whatever desicion you make.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

True relations have true feelings,
and true feelings have everlasting impacts.

My friend what she was with you earlier was all about attraction and what you got for her now is LOVE..!!
If your passion is true, I am damn sure you will get her but remember dont let this fire cool down, which is going on somewhere in you.
Best of Luck..!!

sIncerely;
[ r.Ahmad ]

Answer 8

like you did say she doesn't want to be hurt again. i think you need to prove to her that you love her and you will not hurt her. she has been alot of pain and she doesn't want that to happen again. take it easy with her.all she need is love, assurance that you care and will never hurt her.best thing is to keep on texting, doing all the things that will prove to her that you different from her past guy.wish you the bset.

Answer 9

Sorry to say this, but she is messing you around. Walk away, stop texting her and if she is really interested she will text you. If not.....well, I think you already know what that means.

Answer 10

sounds like she'd rather be with someone who lives closer to her instead of having a long distance relationship

Answer 11

dont be a lightweight !!!

Dont you know when it all over before it started? just forget her and hope you managed to make love to her once just for the memory.

Move on with your life