i am just coming out of a 4 yr long distance relationship, and the reason i do not feel is due to the distance, however i feel totally used, i really loved her and made every effort to travel to see her 20 odd times a 7000 mile round trip, however my love was blind, she never would say she loved me, never came to visit me, hardly kissed never stayed over and we didnt sleep together even though i tried to move all these things forward and we discussed it, however tghe worst thing was that she created this dream for us about living together and slowly she coaxed more and more money out of me for rent and a car and then tried for a house deposit, then i couldnt afford it, i feel a complete ******* idiot so u dont have to tell me, i just want to know how i can stop this happening again, how to say no and to stop being manipulated like she did, i feel i am too much of a nice guy, the more she talked to me the more she conned me i feel, sensible answers please
2006-11-06
22:49:51
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john d
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