To make a long story short, my husband has a history of lying and emotional affairs.
We dated for only a few months and right before we got married (about 2 years ago), he "came out" with many things he had been lying about in his past. He has been to a ton of counseling because of these problems. I believe he would not cheat on me and he has changed for the better.
The problem is, he still cannot be honest with me about issues with other women. For example, if he noticed an attractive woman on the street, he would swear up and down he saw no one.
I believe relationships work only if based in honesty.
My feeling is he needs to be totally honest with me. I will be totally honest with him, as I have nothing to hide.
My feeling is if he can't talk openly about other women, what am I headed for? I am concerned about what else will he hide that is similar to his past emotional affairs, etc?
Opinions much appreciated!
2006-10-29
13:17:04
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Marriage & Divorce