My wife admitted that she has been sleeping with an old boyfriend for the last 2 months. She does not "love" the other guy - its a pure physical relationship she says, which I believe.
I kind of expected the news - I have not been attentive to her, and we had been living more like roomates it seems for years than husband and wife.
Anyhow - she has been more "in the mood" the past 2 months. We have had sex more since her affair started, than the past 5 years combined probably. And, odd as it seems, we usually make love when she comes home late!
Her boyfriend is due to move out of town in January. She is
willing to stop everything now, but if it has lit a spark between us - should i let it continue until January? Is it odd that an affair seems to have brought us closer together? I know they have been in our house, and in our bed - that for some reason was more EXCITING to hear about, than hurtful.
Should I put up with it until Jan.?
Has anyone had an affair that "helped"
2006-10-24
06:53:05
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