I want to stay with him, but why doesn't he want to get married? He says that we are happy right now, and that marriage should only be to secure a complete home for children. At first in our relationship, I constantly told him and everyone else I didn't want to get married (mainly cause I didn't want to scare him off) but I really do. His sister says its cause he can't afford the wedding/ring he knows I would want and doesn't want to dissappoint me. I guess I'm just feeling my 25 yr old age and seeing my friends getting married and having kids and feeling short in the committment department, but I keep just wanting him to run off with me and alope or something. My mother keeps saying he's "not going to buy the cow when the milk is free" if i hear that one more time ill go insane....but starting to think he's just taking me for granted (free car, half bills, housekeeper, dog walker - all in one neat packaged girlfriend!)
2006-10-24
09:24:01
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IndicaGoddess
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