I have found myself falling more and more out of love with my husband over the years. We have been married nearly 8 years, and have 2 children, one of which is autistic, which has put a strain on things, as well as the fact that I was diagnosed with a kidney disease a few years ago.
We always have plenty to talk about, and we argue from time to time, but lately the discussions have been more serious - like the future of our marriage. He has started a new job, and I am about to start one too. There is a fair bit of stress in the house from all this, and we haven't had sex for months. I haven't wanted to, and neither has he. We are rarely intimate any more. We don't hug or kiss any more. He went away on business for a week and I didn't even miss him. In fact, I felt better once he wasn't around. I don't know if it is just a symptom of all the stress of the last few years, and whether something is salvagable. I don't want to split up, but it's hardly a happy marriage.
2006-10-11
03:41:04
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helly
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Marriage & Divorce