My husband and I have been married for almost three years now. We dated over 3 years before we got married. Since weve been married, he has gotten lazy and comfortable. He has even told me he is comfortable bc he knows I wont leave. He doesnt listen to a word I say, he doesnt help out around the house, he wont even take me out anymore. In two years we have been out twice! When I bring these things up, he just gets mad at me. He says I just want a roommate, and not a marriage.In my opinion, that is part of a marriage. I wont confide in him anymore about anything, bc he doesnt listen anyway. We have been throu marriage counsling, Ive threatened to leave, hes been thru anger management, and its all still the same. Now Im finding bc of all this, I dont think Im in love with him anymore. How many chances do I give him? How long do I stick around to hope he might change? Is this just the way marriage is, and I should just get over it? I feel like there is something more..HELP!!!
2006-10-01
23:29:56
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jrcosmogirl333
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Marriage & Divorce