We have been married 26 years. While he was in high school had a crush on her, but she didn't pay any attention to him, he went to his high school reunion(she was his date. He is 46 and she is 45) and they got to talking and things went from there. This affair has being on for a year. Now that I know about the affair, I told him that I wouldn't pay a dime while he is with her. (We can do this as husband and wife or you can do this alone with her) He has wreck his BMW going to see. He had to work double time to pay his bills. We have a home together and he doesn't want to divorce me. He is staying with her. He told me that he is paying for the car that I am driving( its his car), my health insurance through his job, and giving me money time to time. He doesn't think he is treating me that bad. He may not be giving me any of his time but he loves me and thinks of me. Wants me to be there for him, support him and stay the same loving wife. He knows I love him.
2006-09-24
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Chyna R
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Marriage & Divorce