Let's say your wife secretly spends down the emergency bank account from over $5,000 to less than two thousand, and you forgive her; and at the same time she has secret credit cards with interest rates averaging over 20%; and when you find out about them the total is over $7,000; and you forgive her and transfer the balances to one of your low-interest credit cards, then she does it again, and bounces all kinds of checks, paying over 700 dollars in bank fees over a period of a few weeks trying to pay the balances on those credit cards, and you later find out; and you forgive her; and several months later you discover four more credit cards when mail comes in while she is out of town, and she swears (for the third time) that's the end of them, and you forgive her; and arrange for somone to get the mail for you before she gets it, so you can take charge of the whole mess: how soon can you trust her and mend your marriage?
2006-09-14
21:03:31
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