i know you only ever have one mother but my mom has never been there for me throughout my life (i'm 34 now). She left my dad when i was 11 for another man, taking my siblings and me with her. after 3 months, we were sent back to my dad and she moved in with this guy. to me, i saw it that she had to chose between he b/f or us and chose him! She has continued to put her partners before her children ever since. One example, my sister found it unbearable at home, sought refuge with my mom but she wouldnt upset her relationship and placed her with strangers!
i walked out on my husband and kids last year cos he was violent towards me but not the kids. my mom was the only one i confided in about the violence yet 2 weeks after i left, she visited him and i know it wasnt to see the kids cos she never had anything to do with them before! my dad has been there for me, i havent spoken to my mom for 20 months and feel i'd be betraying my dad by getting in touch with her again
2006-09-13
11:39:19
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Mizz Julie
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