My wife told me it's over 3 months ago. She told me she is attached to a co-worker at a job she started 2.5 years ago and her relationship with him is just one of those things that happened. Her involvement with this man has been for 2 years.Since she has moved out she says, only kissing,drinking,touching & have slept in the same bed,but no sex. She left me and our kids 3 months ago,after being married 24 years, and has stayed with a girl friend from the same job. This guy has stayed there, too. Now, she has rented a 2 bedroom apt. and says that they(her & the guy) are moving in together but just as room-mates, and that is it. Why does a person lie to not hurt another and then when the lie comes to the surface they say i didn't want to hurt you. I know I should move on and raise the kids, but It is hard to walk away from a 24 year relationship, just like that. The guy is married and cant afford a divorce and has 3 kids. I believe she is under outside influence & likes her new freedom.
2006-09-12
21:11:18
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james.ampmerch
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Marriage & Divorce