I recently separated from my husband after 16 years of marriage. It wasn't an easy decision for me to make, but I was thinking of what was best for me and the kids. My husband and I just grew apart. I do love him, but am no longer in love with him. He has put me through so much financially and emotionally that I just felt I couldn't take it anymore. I asked him to leave last week and it was the hardest thing I've ever done. He comes over everday and does nothing, but cry and lay the guilt trip on me. He talks about not wanting to live life if I'm not in it. I don't want to see anything bad happen to him, but I don't want to be guilted into taking him back. I am so confused right now. I just wanted to see if anyone out there had any advice on what I should do. I know that I no longer want to be with him and it is best for the kids, but I don't want to be responsible for his unhappiness.
2006-09-09
09:02:55
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Mari
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Marriage & Divorce