My wife always puts me down, she calls it criticizing. For example, I told her that I would take over the bills. So , I have, and for the past two months her bills have been paid on time. Yesterday, I left her a note, asking her to pay two bills, with the assumption that if she could just write two checks, I would mail one and hand deliver the other. She calls me, I was at her family b-day get together, she couldn't go she was "working'', and says she doesn't understand the note, that I'm not helping her in ANY way by doing it this way, and that I should have written the checks out so she could just sign them. Am I wrong? Am I crazy? Why does she need to say that? And just for the record, we ARE going to counseling, and she HAS told me that she's expected too much from me and that she would start helping around the house and pick up after herself and that she was sorry, and she thanked me for putting up with all her crap for this long. That was a week ago. So, now what?
2006-08-16
02:01:52
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