I dont get it. I was at a wedding sitting and eating with some people I didn't know too well - they were talking about relationships and when they asked me if I'm involved and I said 'no.' Then some girl asked me "Well, what about in the past?" - I told them that I've never been involved with anyone before - a virgin basically.
They couldn't believe it for some reason. Then the table became quiet and no one really talked to me afterwards - I felt pretty discriminated against and also as if they were trying to embarass me for being a virgin with gossip. I have no problem saying that I'm a virgin - I'm not at all ashamed by it at all, but rather empowered that I don't 'give in' to any sexual impulses which makes me feel that I'm in complete control of myself.
I dont understand whats so bad about being a male virgin at 37, or really what there is to be ashamed of. With all the sex on TV and everywhere shouldn't one actually feel a little empowered that they can control it?
2006-08-12
18:10:20
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