how to get GF to be less self conscious about her breasts?

Question

I love my gf and we've been goin out for almost 8 months. She is really self conscious about her breasts. I like them just teh way they are but she doesn't liek them cuz she thinks that they are 2 small. They are perfect for me and i could care less about how big or small they are cuz i love her for who she is. Although she is very beautiful :-D. But when we are laying together i can't help but touch and she won't let me beacuse of her being self conscious. She has become less self conscious around me but she stays almost the same in that area compared to everywhere else. IS THERE A WAY I COULD HELP MY GF BECOME LESS SELF CONSIOUS ABOUR HER BREASTS?

Answer 1

keep reassuring her of how beautiful she is with and without her clothes on. Let her know constantly that you are satisfied with her and she will eventually get over this. Until then try to be sympathetic and understanding. It's hard to just "get over" an image issue. My now husband helped me a lot just by making over me so much. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

first of all every girl is going to be self conscience about something. Breasts however are the hardest because there's nothing she can do to make herself feel better...you can't put on makeup and make them look bigger. You said that she is slowly getting better about touching and my encouragement to you is IF you really do love her is be patient and she will realize that you do love her no matter how big or small she is. I don't know how old you are but i am twenty five now and until a few years ago i didn't realize that there are guys out there that do find smaller breast attractive. Granted you probably only want her to care about what you think she will worry for a while about what she thinks "MEN" in general find attractive. So I think, coming from a small girl, that if you keep encouraging her to find herself beautiful she will eventually realize that she is gorgeous.

Answer 3

I know how she feels cuz I feel the same way...There is not anything you can do but give it time. Don't pay too much attention to that area because it makes her feel unsexy, stupid and childish. Instead when you are together pay alot of attention to the area on her she feels is her best attribute, and kiss on her breast every once in while. Don't ignore completely though. It's a very sensitive issue and for some reason grabbing them is the worse. It just makes you feel really uncomfortable and unsexy. Never offer to buy her implants, let her do that on her own.

Answer 4

Have you ever told her you love her the way she is? And gosh you are so sweet. I wish more guys were like you! Anyway, just talk to her about it and just hope she understands and stops being so self concious about her breasts. By the way, I never realized that there were some guys out there who like small breasts. I always believed guys liked big ones.

Answer 5

Make up stories about girls with little breasts and tell them to her as sexual fantasies. Talk to her about her breasts in detail, get it in her imagination that little breasts are very sexy to you. With time, she will be won over, and think her breats are sexy, too.

Answer 6

talk to her about it ask her why is so self concious about her breasts i am not self consious

Answer 7

well tell her that you love her for her looks and she shouldnt change them.If she is not listening then you should tell her the bad things that happen when girls go to boob docs.If she still wants to go thro you should let her and support her.

Answer 8

tell her a hand full is perfect. Anything bigger is a waste :-p

Answer 9

Get her a breast implant.

Answer 10

Show her pictures of girls with huge **** and explain how saggy, large boobs are unnattractive.