My Dad died 8 weeks ago after fighting cancer for a year and a half. During his illness I spent almost all my spare time after work visiting my parents house as he was being for cared at home by my Mum and, especially near the end, she needed all the help possible.
Anyway, during that time my husband was left alone at home and as the months progressed he was turning to drink more and more as (he says) he was bored waiting for me to come home. Don't get me wrong he was fabulous - he did the washing, cleaning etc.
Well, the problem is that now that my Dad has died my husband is still drinking every single night - he doesn't drink spirits, just beer. I honestly thought that now would be a time for us getting our relationship back on track which is what i want more than anything in the world - instead I lie in bed beside a man who I don't even want to kiss (beer breath!). I've told him how i feel and he tells me he loves me and that he will cut back but its worse now than ever - help!
2006-07-19
05:40:58
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kamirsam
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Marriage & Divorce