i got pregnant 4 him&he doesnt want 2 settle down now bls he said he is payin some debt and want 2 settle his family member bl4 settling down,he his d major person financing his sibblings&other relatives,i ve 2 abort.i understand he play a key role in his family,he d issue of d pregnancy came up he told me there re alot of things he didnt tell me abt his finance so that i wont be scare,he accept that feeding a wife and child his not d problem but taking care of a weddind is d issue so inorder not 2 embarrass ourself we shd remove d baby,to be realistic i purposely got pregnant so dat he will settle down am 27,bls i want 2 settle down now and ve a family but unfortune it turn upside down.he said i shd give him till december 2 settle.now he is concern dat wat happen 2 our relationship after abortion but i still promise him dat it wont affect our relationship but deep down in my heart am disturb.i want d best 4 myself in life.shd i still wait 4 him or look somewhere else,is he sincere.
2006-07-13
03:48:54
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Slash2006
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