i have been with my boyfriend for two years and been living with him, and the two kids that he has primary custody of, for a year and a half. the kids mom walked out on the kids when the girl was 3 and the boy was 1 1/2 monthes old. now she is pregnant with another mans baby. the girl has been calling me mommy for over a year now and the boy has been calling me mommy for about 9 monthes. im the only mother that these kids do. im involed in the girls school. i love beening in their lives and enjoy them calling me mom because it makes them happy. now the problem is she wants to be more involed in their lives now that she knows they both call me mom. when they go and visit her every other weekend she tells me that they arent allowed to call me mommy and say i love you to me. she called my boyfriend last weekend when she had them and told him she didnt apprieate them calling me mom. he told her that i have been the only mom they have ever know. what is her deal. and what do i do about it?
2006-06-27
06:11:39
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kj_burgess
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