hey girls. guys always say stupid things that hurt our feelings. they just don't think. even there actions can do that-they don't even realize it. what can i do next time this happens? how can i not let him get to me and stay strong?
2006-06-27 06:10:55 · 13 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AVOID THEM
2006-06-27 06:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of you girls sound like you would treat a guy like you would treat your dog.
I have no respect whatsoever for girls that use such manipulative actions against guys as a general cure all.
Talk to him, and help him understand what he is doing and why it hurts. Approach it from a constructive point of view, don't go out of your way to create drama and destruction.
2006-06-27 06:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by BadBoyHuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you are feeling i am feeling the some way whne i like a guy he dumps me for my sister or he cheat on me or just still for sex will i do is pick me self up and i am not take in no more and i look that when and say if you want me back you go by my rule or go to hell i can fine some one better them you
2006-06-27 06:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him, if its your boyfriend, dump him, totally ignore him, if he says something stupid or hurtful, just smile and keep stepping, he will realize that it doesn't bother you anymore, even though it does, thats how you show the strong side of yourself
2006-06-27 06:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by davionmw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me see if I have this right. So, girls aren't mean? and girls don't say things that hurt?
Wake up! Relationships are tough. Many are made tougher by those whose "feelings" are too shallow and easly hurt!
2006-06-27 06:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do just that don't let him get to you and let him know what he said and did is unacceptable. When he does something wrong you have to correct it that's all. Sometimes you have to demand your respect, they like that too. Strong women and girls don't allow such behavior. Much love.
2006-06-27 06:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know. If he knows that it gets to you, then the guy will probably try to stop hurting you if he cares about you. If he doesn't care about you, ditch him. He's not worth your time.
2006-06-27 06:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy laugh and say a stupid joke back to him.or simple when he talks to you simply walk away as if he didint say anything.
2006-06-27 06:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's being an idiot, and to stop it, or you're going home. Or shoving him out the door.
2006-06-27 06:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and move on to someone that can respect u and ur feelings
2006-06-27 06:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could tell him where he's going wrong.
he might argue with you but later when he calms down he just might see your point.
2006-06-27 06:14:42 · answer #11 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋