Back in September, I met this awesome guy "J", who is straight. Although I didnt come out right away I did after knowing him for a a couple weeks. He said he had already known and he was very accepting. Over time, we became good friends going hiking, playing poker, and just hanging out. In the middle of the year his roommate told "J" that i secretly had feelings for him. I began to wonder if I did since I miss him when he's away, look forward to seeing him, and value spending time with him. Then, I look at the opposite side, and I havent really felt jealous of him dating and I'm not sexually drawn to him, even though he is a good-looking guy. For a while he became distant, but never cut me off as a friend. Recently, he told me that what his roommate had said had triggered him to pull back some. Lately things have gotten back to normal, now that his roommate has graduated and we hang out as friends again. However, I'm not sure how to tell if I'm falling for him. Any thoughts?
2006-06-25
13:41:17
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Paul
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender