My ex-girlfriend's little sister was ill since birth with a very rare syndrome, and she died yesterday. I was very fond of her, and she liked me a lot as well. She always swore she'd steal me from her older sister and marry me; I suppose I was her first crush. It's very important to me that I pay my respects.
However, I'm not certain her older sister ever wants to see me again, especially at this difficult time in her life, and I'm fairly sure her parents hold a grudge against me as well. It's been a few years since our breakup, though, and I never did anything exactly disrespectful or disrespectable to my ex; I just left her without much of an explanation, which I know she resented.
Please help me decide what to do-- I'd love to be supportive, but I absolutely don't want to cause anyone pain.
2006-08-29
10:45:34
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