Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - April 2007

My boyfriend just came out to me and told me that a few years ago he was in a relationship with another male.
It freaked me out alot, but with a little bit of research I found out that alot of men who were in a same sex relationship, were abused as children. I asked him if he was, and he said his older cousin abused/raped/molested him repeatedly as a child. He took an AIDS/HIV test and everything is clean, but something in the back of my mind is worried he'll fall back in love with a man when he's with me...he thinks I'm being ridiculous, but I always thought that being bi just meant having sex with men and women. Curious to know if anyone had this experience before, how we can help each other, and help me realize that he loves ME.

2007-04-06 08:52:52 · 13 answers · asked by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1

My daughters in honors English & they have to do a debate with someone who has the opposite opinion. In her class there are 32 kids & alot of them wanted to debate why same sex marriage should be allowed, but no one in the class was against it. Does that mean that these 9th graders are smarter than the people in charge now? My opinion is yes

2007-04-06 08:48:27 · 18 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5

" Is a spoonerism the result of a sexually intimate encounter?"

2007-04-06 08:38:07 · 9 answers · asked by STORMY 5

Bring out the pocket rocket

2007-04-06 08:31:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to be rude or graphic, just wondering what act(s) suffice to make a gay dude or a lesbian no longer be a virgin.

2007-04-06 08:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by TallChocolate69 1

2007-04-06 08:23:20 · 12 answers · asked by craven 2

Are there any signs? If so what are they? How do you know?

2007-04-06 08:04:28 · 25 answers · asked by katier16101 2

2007-04-06 07:52:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Serious problem I’m having, I recently told my mother that I intend to date only women. And she keep pursuing me to talk to guys. She even goes so far as to give some of the my phone number. What can I do to stop this? I feel like she’s disrespecting me. Its starting to cause a strain on our relationship, because now when I go around her. I’m pretty distant. What should I do? Its like she’s never going to accept me for who I am. I am an only child and my girlfriend tells me this is why she’s doing this. Not really sure about that. Any help would be appreciated.

2007-04-06 07:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have ummm... wet dreams about having sexually activities with a guy, are you guy?

2007-04-06 07:21:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jason 1

I am a gay male w/ who happens to have a straight male friend who is aware of my orientation. Over the past several months we have been spending alot more time together and have really begun to enjoy each others company. He told me that I was very easy to be with and that he was finding it more difficult to be with his girlfriend as of late. He also happens to be very "touchy" with me, but I respect him and set limits as to my response.
When plans were made to meet out one night, he told me he was excited and couldn't wait. By the time he showed, he barely spoke two words and left. Now he will not even return calls. What happened ?? The worst part is that I was begining to have feelings for him as I am sure he was for me.
Is all lost ? Did I do something wrong ? Has this ever happened to any of you guys ? If so, how did you handle it ?

2007-04-06 06:07:57 · 8 answers · asked by johnnyman 2

2007-04-06 05:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by ali d 1

Why would a person send a picture of their genitals if someone asks them for a self picture. I mean, if they met me at a bar do they unzip their fly when you shake their hand? I don't get it

Is that what they think of themselves as- a penis or a butt? :\

2007-04-06 05:34:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok......I'm not looking for judgement or "you're going to hell" or any of that....I just need help. I made a huge mistake. There's this guy that I've been friends with for 3 months. He has a huge crush on me and has been trying to get with me since we met. I'm not a sexual person, so I just accepted his friendship and ignored the rest. It doesn't bother me. It doesn't change who he is. Well, one night we were hanging out (me, him and a mutual friend). He was getting stoned with our friend. I wasn't. But it felt right, so I hit on him and long story short, we had sex. He has never been happier, but I've never felt worse. I feel so guilty. I thought it was right, but now I know I made a huge mistake. not only was I not prepared for sex, physically or emotionally, but now this guy thinks I have feelings for him. I don't. If I tell him, I'll hurt him and risk losing his friendship. If I don't, he'll continue to think I'm into him. How do I make things right? i feel so low.

2007-04-06 05:14:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

being homosexual, transexual, etc. and some fanatic Christian gives an answer saying you are going to hell and need Jesus to be "saved". I was just reading a post about someone writing a gay fairy tale and someone blasted him about not having religion. I think it is nuts. It is time to stop putting people down. Don't you think so???

2007-04-06 04:57:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

So. Let's say this person was born female, but now lives life as a male, ie has changed his drivers license to male, a legal male name, doesnt look or sound female but like a very attractive/pretty male no one would ever know he was ever female before by interacting with him (although he is fairly open about the info), everyone calls him "he". However, he still has some female anatomy, although overall his body is very male-like

Let's say this person still primarily dates and is attracted to men. If he has a boyfriend, does this count as homosexual or can he get away with it because technically, he was born female?

If he was with a heterosexual woman in a more het-appearing relationship, would this be more acceptable or less? Or are his relationships with either considered homosexual? Would he be allowed to marry either of these people?

Real respectful answers please. I just want to know what is the interpretation of his relationships with men and women, and which is ok.

2007-04-06 04:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by RickAntony 1

Or don't you?

2007-04-06 04:00:23 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a mum, been with my partner for 10 years and happy. in the last 5 years my partner and i have slept with my best friend and i have slept with her and husband. i have never regreted this and we all stay 2gether at her house on a weekend. this might seem abnormal but i seem to love her and my partner, i know she feels the same as she tried 2 find a house big enough for us all 2 live in. my b/f and her husband loves the idea of my friend and i being 2gether but im not sure if this would end in tears. what do u think, am i being stupid or can some1 really love 2 people at the same time. thank you for all advice recieved

2007-04-06 03:40:55 · 22 answers · asked by michelle6 1

2007-04-06 03:30:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your boyfriend is perverted, without having to remove his rubber jockstrap, goggles and straight-jacket?

2007-04-06 02:58:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-05 23:14:22 · 13 answers · asked by Gay Man 2

2007-04-05 23:06:35 · 16 answers · asked by Gay Man 2

2007-04-05 22:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by Gay Man 2

2007-04-05 22:53:37 · 18 answers · asked by Gay Man 2

All the adult like sex but the morality obliges to say it's bad, why? Only in Sodom & Gomorrha all the people is free to have fun?

2007-04-05 22:40:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

giving it to them good?....I find with my **** buddy he fixes me dinner and gives back rubs if I **** him good...
any thoughts?

2007-04-05 21:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

changing clothes from boys to girls, should i go slow, a little at a time or completely changing my entire clothes all at once to all girls?

2007-04-05 20:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im depressed because I am an obese person who has never had sex before. The thing that depresses me is that I'm 34 years old. Idont know what to do. Woman dont find me attractive, I try, but they all reject me. What do I do?

2007-04-05 19:33:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did straight people wake up and say they choose to be straight? NO! Its just the way it worked out.

2007-04-05 19:22:15 · 28 answers · asked by The Con 5

2007-04-05 18:59:40 · 16 answers · asked by early 2