Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - September 2006

Can you please just admit that homosexuality makes you uncomfortable, and stop pretending that there's a legitimate reason to oppose it on religious grounds?

Yes, same-sex relationships are forbidden in the Old Testament. So is pork. And shellfish, and clothes of different fibers, and a bunch of other stuff nobody cares about today. Most of these "abominations" stemmed from public health concerns, like preventing trichinosis from undercooked pork, or preventing the spread of disease by touching a dead body. There were also practical issues: the Israelites wanted everyone of child-bearing age to be working on creating more Israelites; hence same-sex relationships were discouraged.

Today, we have other ways of preventing disease. Also, we have more than enough people. The Old Testament abominations are obsolete in the modern world, which is why no one follows the rest of them.

So can you quit using religion as a justification and just admit that you've got personal issues?

2006-09-03 08:15:17 · 31 answers · asked by abram.kelly 4

I don't know for sure if I am, and I am really scared that if I really am what might happen to my whole life. I'm not that old, never had many relationships, but have had feelings for people of the same sex. I have been asked out by girls that my friends consider "hot". I just don't know if I find women atractive. This is really worrying me. Also, I'm not sure how the students at my school would react if I did come out of the closet. What should I do?

2006-09-03 08:10:06 · 24 answers · asked by some guy 3

I am not saying you are bad people...but what is the attraction?

2006-09-03 07:58:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems every time I see an idiot bashing homosexuals or their lifestyle the common response from the gay community is that he is homosexual himself and overcompensating.

Do you really believe that is true? I tend to just think that they are just untolerant, uneducated, or downright hateful.
In my limited experience, people who feel they might have gay thoughts usually become very quiet when the topic comes up. The opposite of being outspoken and mean.

It just doesnt make any sense to me, if a mother speaks out against violent video games, no one accuses her of secretly wanting to play them.


And for the record - I am not a homophobe, I dont want any anti-gay answers, and I am not here to argue. I am open minded about this, just confused.

2006-09-03 07:57:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women aren't turned on by lesbian sex, which is understandable, because I'm not turned on by gay sex.

But men like lesbian sex, so do women enjoy watching gay sex? I've always wondered that.

2006-09-03 07:48:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 07:47:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do ppl. come on here and say how much they hate gays but are always on this site looking around ???i think they need to find a life or get true to there self

2006-09-03 07:30:58 · 10 answers · asked by little_man432 1

2006-09-03 07:21:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

4% of americans were gay, now its up to like 23% is it because of the media? i mean no ones born gay thats proven, but if its not the media what else would make someone want attention so bad that they have to pretend to be a homo?

2006-09-03 07:14:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 06:57:29 · 20 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5

I have a really bad "lesdar" and I would hate to go up to talk to a girl assume she's a lesbian or bisexual, and then she's straight. I wouldn't want to make her uncomfortable.

2006-09-03 06:26:02 · 8 answers · asked by utxicana 2

Almost everytime I see an answer on here about why, I see the christains put down, deside for yourself,should I obey GOD or man? Being gay is an abomination, we are of the animal race,all of us are, so why don`t we allow humans and dogs to marry? sure their are people out there that actually have sex with animals, Is that ok? this is their sexual preferance so why not? and would it be ok for these people to also raise kids to think this is acceptable? It is against the law for man to have sex with a lamb, why would we have to have a law against that? as christians we have to stand for what the Bible teaches Is right, and if we take a GOOD look at the shape of the world today, we HAVE some pretty lazy christians, or maybe thier just playing church. anyway, I don`t hate anyone, I hate SIN, even my sins, the flesh is weak, but that don`t make it ok to SIN.

2006-09-03 05:58:42 · 18 answers · asked by theladylooking 4

I´m from Brazil and here we don´t have as much gay movies as in other countrys. We (gay people from BR) just can encounter this kiind of thing by internet. Write recommending me your favorite gay book or movie.

2006-09-03 05:57:56 · 15 answers · asked by "D" 2

2006-09-03 05:55:46 · 11 answers · asked by billyboysblue 3

What are the gay clubs that are most frequented around Manhattan for the 18+ crowd? I'll be up in the city in a couple weeks and would like to know specifically which clubs for whichever night of the week. Thanks.

2006-09-03 05:14:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 05:11:11 · 14 answers · asked by internetoptimiser 3

think of anything. I really respect them except for the rude and loud nasty ones that hate everyone and them selves. What do you think about that?

2006-09-03 05:08:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you deal with it?
How do you accept those feelings inside you?
How do you come to terms with it?
Would you change those feeling if you could?
When did you know and how?
When did you come out, if you are?
How did you meet other people like here?
How do you deal with family

2006-09-03 04:31:25 · 14 answers · asked by Raziel 3

straight acting,he is masculine and butch,addict in online games and enjoyed chatting with online gamers(mostly boys),no interest with girls,suspected me as gay but he enjoys my company and wants to control me,very jealous with other guys closed to me,very defensive when we talk about gayness and he enjoys talking like gay languages and when i aalways try to start talking about our weird relationship(we both don't come out yet) he tried to divert the story and hates to talk about it!why and what do you think he is?

2006-09-03 04:19:38 · 7 answers · asked by Bruno 1

I am not sure if my bestfriend is gay too, but he likes my company so much and tell not get married if I go first for a marriage!He is a straight acting guy and at the age of 28 never have a GF but very closed with his lady cousins as he flirted and they slept alone in the room buu he said nothing happened!He said before that he likes the quality of his cousin and I get jealous of it!

2006-09-03 03:53:47 · 19 answers · asked by Bruno 1

him! I just keep it myself! If I talk about girls I admired he just keep silent and won't talk to me! I get jealous too if he talk about girls but I pretended not affected and tease him but he gets angry (deep inside I am jealous) !what is the meaning of his silence? ( He is a jolly person)

2006-09-03 03:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by Bruno 1

But I want to discourage myself about him because it is impossible for us to become happy even we like each other because I think he wouldn't go for a man to man relationship!Please help me to forget about him, we are just neighbors!

2006-09-03 03:39:20 · 3 answers · asked by Bruno 1

We went from Brokeback Mtn. which I thought was a pretty honest representation of things, especially for the time period. I have seen the Ricky Bobby movie and Benchwarmers, and they seemed to add homosexual elments like people put pepperoni on a pizza. The element is there, but it seems to have no purpose.

Did the french driver have to be gay? Was there really enough milage in that to be worthwhile? And in Benchwarmers (come on Nick Swardson must be gay) why have a tall skinny guy running around in a speedo?

To me it seems to reinforce some crappy stereotypes about gay guys. I am just curious what the opinions are in the gay male community. Note also people in recent movies aren't plastering lesbians all over the place. Hmmm....

2006-09-03 02:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by DellXPSBuyer 5

av arlways thought a goy was a gentile?....

2006-09-03 02:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by swot 5

My roommate (also female) has been getting very playful recently, but I am afraid to respond because I am not sure if it won't complicate our living situation. This isn't a great romance, but is it a good idea?

2006-09-03 02:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by Isis 7

2006-09-03 01:42:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a stud. And I met this girl online and she told me she was femme. I spoke to her on webcam and she looked femme. So we decided to meet, and when I met her she was as butch as I was! I was shocked.

I told her it wasnt going to work out and she started crying and basically made me feel like sh*t.

Was i wrong to do her like that? The conversation was great and I had high hopes, but she was a freakin butch that thought she was femme!

I've never dealt with anything like that before. She honestly considers herself femme, and didnt understand why I broke it off with her.

Am I a total jerk for that? i feel pretty bad but on the other hand, i'm kinda pissed off that she even wasted my time. She was very much aware that I dont like other studs. I'm like WTF man??? Where are the real femmes???????????????????????

2006-09-03 01:42:20 · 21 answers · asked by angelajock 3

2006-09-03 00:56:13 · 6 answers · asked by sissyboymichele 1

hey girls and everyone else...i want info on where can I buy some lesbian erotica that actually have been lesbians in it..none of this crap that have been produced by straight men...i WANT lesbian's doing lesbian...know what i mean...i had read something on this months ago in lotl..magazine..anyone seen it ..plse help...I'm sick to death of straight chics depicting lesbian's.....arghhhhh.

2006-09-02 23:58:44 · 9 answers · asked by raven jack. 3

laugh?
when women say that i make them laugh i always think thats just how they see me and nothing else.

2006-09-02 23:29:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous