My roommate (also female) has been getting very playful recently, but I am afraid to respond because I am not sure if it won't complicate our living situation. This isn't a great romance, but is it a good idea?
2006-09-03 02:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Every relationship is different. Only you and your roommate can decide if it is right for the 2 of you. It does work for my g/f and I though.
2006-09-03 02:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you like packing boxes. Have a heart to heart with her and tell her that you make it a practice to never mix roommates and romance. Be prepared to have her leave or ask you to leave, she may already be too over the line.
2006-09-03 09:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel the same, are on the same page, and know that neither will have a problem if the other gets serious about someone else, hey, why not? If it gets tilted, someone usually slides out of the house. So talk first.
2006-09-03 09:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being playful and responding to your roommate's playfullness unless you feel something other than friendship for her which would cause u to feel guilty later on.
2006-09-03 11:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by karatekiddo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are on the same page and understand the situation, it could be lots of fun. No need for everything to be so complicated.
2006-09-03 09:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if she is a best friend, I would Advise NO. You live together, If it don't work out, who moves because on will surely go.
If you like her back, then tell her that if we date, we get separate apartments.
Odds are though, you will lose a friend if you do.
2006-09-03 09:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how close you and your housemate are. If you are both honest from the start and let eachother know you don't want it to ruin your friendship.
2006-09-03 09:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Emma-Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it will enhance your friendship yes. if it will depreciate your friendship, no, but you can't make an omelette without cracking eggs, and life is not a rehearsal.
2006-09-03 09:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by swot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel the same. Slip her the tounge and she what she does.
2006-09-03 10:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it! it might be a good thing. And if things dont work out, then try to remain friends......cause yeah dont worry you can still be friend, and roomates.
2006-09-03 09:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by off_switch33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋