I am a lesbian, and I choose not to date women with kids. It has nothing to do with the fact that they were once living the straight life, or that they might be bi, but because I don't have any kids so I prefer women with no kids.Actually, a woman could have a child within a lesbian relationship and she and her partner broke up, but I still wouldn't date her. I know a lot of women feel that they had to be straight and conceived children in the process or before they realized they were gay, and also that some bi women have children but decide that they only want to date women long term. It would be different if I had kids, then I wouldn't mind dating a mother. But I don't, so I tend to stay away from them. Also, I want my first child to be with my future wife after I settle down. I would want us to have that first child experience together after we get married.Plus, I do not have time for ex-husband/wife, baby mama/baby daddy drama. Is this selfish?
2006-09-02
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