Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - August 2006

I'm a lesbian in a relationship with a woman who has 6 kids-i love her very much but her kids drive me crazy-they will not mind her or me.they cuss at her,will not listen to her,it's always been that way for her-not just because she's with me.
I was raised alot different-to respect people and alot of things.She left their father for me and i know they hate this relationship between us-i can understand their feelings concerning us.But they still make me wanta' just scream,i don't hate the kids just their ways.What should i do????????????????????

2006-08-11 10:54:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 10:52:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 10:51:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Loyalty versus the desire to be free. Which should be be preferred and why?

2006-08-11 10:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by waggy 6

2006-08-11 10:50:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 10:49:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boy friend is spending the night to night. how do i start sex i dont just want to go lets have sex. then if we do have sex what are the moves i should do and what should i not do (NO ANAL THATS GROSS!)

2006-08-11 10:35:47 · 12 answers · asked by sneedman15 1

my guy friend is coming over to spend the night tonight. we decided on having sex. can you tell me what to do and good moves. and what not to do (NO ANAL STUFF THATS GROSS!)

2006-08-11 10:10:58 · 14 answers · asked by sneedman15 1

i have a pretty small d-i-c-k (about 4 inches or so). I havent dated anyone because I am afraid that I may not satisfy my partner's needs or may get ridiculed. Should I live by myself or get surgery? Serious answer please. And I am gay, probably a top.

2006-08-11 09:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Travis 4

i can't really look at porn because that will get me going even more and i cant just go into the bathroom and jack off, can i?

2006-08-11 09:33:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im just wondering what makes them attracted to the same sex...was it bad relationships, child molestation.....what makes you gay? simply a choice is not sufficient...i cannot choose to be gay because i do not find males attractive....so what makes gay people gay?

2006-08-11 09:29:01 · 21 answers · asked by mastermind 3

Why do many lesbians claim to love women but then dress like guys and act like guys and date those who do the same?

Are they lying to themselves?

2006-08-11 09:10:15 · 19 answers · asked by hirschfanger 1

2006-08-11 09:09:06 · 20 answers · asked by john m 1

Do people who get a sex change, whether it be from male to female or female to male, believe that from that point on they are truely the new sex. I mean cause their DNA never changes, so technically even if a man had breast implants, took female hormones, and had their genitals removed, they are still a male. So do people who do this really believe the sex change made them become the opposite sex?

2006-08-11 09:01:37 · 18 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5

2006-08-11 08:48:10 · 13 answers · asked by olga c 2

lmao! i'm sorry i find this hilarious. i'm gay and i have that quote on my signature for a couple of forums i'm on. Just wondering what you all think =]

-Blah blah blah overpopulation
-Blah blah blah gay people have been around before the world was over populated...

i know its stupid. just humor me ;]

2006-08-11 08:43:04 · 25 answers · asked by sined 2

2006-08-11 08:32:41 · 27 answers · asked by JJ 2

Including the ones who were at my same-gender wedding?

They signed a petition to allow an anti-gay marriage constitutional amendment on the ballot this November. I saw at http://www.knowthyneighbor.org, which tracks the people who signed these petitions in Florida and Massachussetts. I come from Florida.

How can they love me to my face and do this behind my back? I wasn't able to marry in my home state, and they're part of the reason why!

*Should* I say anything to them? I feel bad about searching on the site. But this is confirming that I really should go surfing instead of being home for Thanksgiving.

How would y'all handle this?

2006-08-11 08:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7

i know the americans have one but wanted to know other than bloody pat butcher from eastenders who is a lesbo?

2006-08-11 08:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

GUYS only NO girls

2006-08-11 07:56:21 · 42 answers · asked by andy 1

2006-08-11 07:33:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a hot button for me, with my mom being gay. She left my dad and I 18 years ago when I was 8 and when i started college she began to call again and try to establish a relationship.

It's opened my world up a lil. I'm still prolly considered pretty close minded. I'm getting there kind of like the White girl in the movie (Remember The Titans,) She didn't shake Julian's hand the first time but a lil while later she came back and shook his hand.
The key thing for me that I'm seeing is that it wasn't my Dad's Fault and it wasn't my fault that she left I still think that it is our fault somtimes. To be very honest with all of you that is a very easy mind set to fall into. I'm serious here, so be conscious of that. With us close minded straights.

This is crazy but my mom cheated on my dad, he never told me until I got on here and started questioning your life style. To this day he loves her but he's remarried now. It makes me a lil sad becasue he never bad mouthed her.

2006-08-11 07:28:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

So... I'm single right now. I've been watching this one chick for months. She's young, and very much a player. She uses non-commitment like a shield, and I can see there is a vulnerable side to her that she's hiding. She's been hitting on me for months, and I've been teasing her right back, but I haven't engaged because I know she'll just end up using me. That's what she's done with every chick she's been with in the past few months. SO... knowing this, I've decided to... get my physical needs met... and not let her anywhere near my heart. Because frankly, I could really fall for her. As much as I like her, I don't want to get my heart shredded.
Your advice on how to play a player would be greatly appreciated.

2006-08-11 07:21:13 · 8 answers · asked by revenueforge 4

Is there anyway for a soon to be male to female trans, to lower his testostrone before he starts hormone therapy??? can someone give me a few options?? thank you

2006-08-11 07:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It saddens me that even within this community transsexuals are still outsiders and often not accepted.I am a transsexual male.I was assigned f/m at birth and raised as such.Before I was old enough to start school I knew I was a boy.I am not a female now, nor have ever been.My gender and my sexuality are two SEPERATE issues.I live my life (private and public) as male If you met me in person youd have no reason to suspect otherwise.I look like any other beefed up guy.I identify as homosexual.I have sex with men only. I have sex with another man the same way any other man does.When a transsexual male is attracted to women he is straight.When attracted to males he is Gay Most transsexual women have surgery done to remove biological genitals.Most transsexual men have breast tissue removed.I do not need or even want anyones approval otherwise I'd still be waiting and wouldnt be where I am today.I want the same thing you want. Respect http://levi-murray.tripod.com/oneboisjourney/index.html

2006-08-11 07:07:40 · 13 answers · asked by Levi Cristopher . 4

OK, I know the politcally correct answer is no, gay people are always gay.

BUT: I kinda don't believe it given the large number of newly gay or formerly gay people I've known or heard about. These are people who got married, had kids and their spouses didn't know anything about the gay thing. Or former gays getting married and enjoying life. I don't believe that ALL of them are lying.

What would be the problem if a person decided to be gay or to stop being gay. Why not just admit it? It doesn't mean you cant be treated like a human being just because you changed your mind.

I don't get it. Somebody help me out....

2006-08-11 06:50:48 · 25 answers · asked by grdnoviz 4

I've always wondered. Most are POWER bottoms.

2006-08-11 06:43:46 · 14 answers · asked by Kookoo Bananas 3

my fiance is a bottom, we want someone to join us in the bedroom, but looking for someone who is alright with me being there and even maybe joining in. We are having alot of trouble with this and its getting frustrating, is there any hope?? Our other option is an open relationship but for some reason i am having intense feelings of jealousy with him going out with other men without me.

2006-08-11 06:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6

Is a person ever really out of the closet?

A couple of points of view I have are:

1) Coming out of the closet could mean when you are out to yourself, your family and your friends. The problem here is, we all make new friends throughout our life. Are we constantly throughout our lives coming out to new people? Are we really ever out of the closet if this is the case?

2) A person is out of the closet when they feel no more need to hide their sexuality from anyone. Sure, from time to time, and because we live in a heteronormative society (a society that assumes heterosexuality) the person may need to tell someone that they are not straight. This isn't really "coming out" though, merely fixing someone's assumption that we are straight.

Of course, for transgendered people, it can be even harder, because it's easier for a gay person to make their sexual identity a non issue, it can be less obvious

So I ask, when do you think a person, if ever, is out of the closet?

2006-08-11 06:19:35 · 11 answers · asked by Shaun B 2

i just have been wanting to read some books like that the main Characters are gay/lez/or bi.

2006-08-11 06:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous