GUYS only NO girls
2006-08-11 07:56:21 · 42 answers · asked by andy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yup your gay
2006-08-11 07:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by jack_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. It really depends on weather or not you found it particularly arousing to masturbate with this guy. In order to answer this question properly, I'd need to know how you felt about the situation. I'm sure you were uncomfortable, thinking that you may be gay by doing this, but you may not be gay. On the other hand, just because you have a girlfriend, doesn't mean that you are straight. The ultimate deciding factor is, what was your reason for doing this? Are you aroused by the idea of masturbating with other guys, or perhaps just this guy? Did you just want to see what it was like? You probably felt a little ashamed or guilty afterwords, but there was nothing wrong with what you were doing. The action itself isn't gay, necessarily, but it depends on weather or not you did it because you were aroused by the idea, or weather you were experimenting. Ultimately, the decision about your sexual orientation is yours and yours alone. You need to decide weather you are aroused by your guy friend, or your girlfriend, or perhaps both. Either way, it's a decision for you to make.
2006-08-11 08:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I never...and I mean that, I never heard such a screwed up question. You are masterbating for another guy while ur looking at his d***, right? Is he masturbating too? How about the girlfriend? Do you do the same for her? Does she know you like looking at d***? At best here your BI, or at least real curious. Do you think your gay? I mean, you're the only one who really knows. I guess if it ever goes further than the masturbating ...then you'll know for sure. Personally I think you're gay and you should tell your girl, if she doesn't already know that you would rather lather your pole for him, then hide the sausage with her.
2006-08-11 08:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter I think is the important question? If you like girls you aren't "gay" you could at most be bi. But if you aren't attracted to males then you are straight. Sexual behaviour is iirelevant. Plenty of straights have done things with the same sex a majority in fact and they are still straight. But really it shouldn't matter what you are.
2006-08-12 22:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by homosceptic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, if there is another guy in your bedroom, you are NOT alone.
and NO, that does not make you Gay...why all this preoccupation with "am I gay?" lately??? IF you have to ask if you are Gay, trust me, you are not. You are probably young....early to mid teens...big deal. We used to have JO contests in a circle to see who could get off the fastest....and I can guarantee you that 90% of the contestants were not Gay. This is getting to the point of being ridiculous. Are you THAT unsure of who and what you are? The answers I see above are beyond stupid...they are basically ignorant.
2006-08-11 08:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there is at least some male on male attraction there.
Why do you have a girl friend? Are you honestly attracted to her or is it that you are fulfilling a social requirement?
If you honestly are attracted to women you could be bi. If you are just going through the motions, you might very well be gay.
Give your self the time and education you need to know for sure.
2006-08-11 08:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the very least it makes you confused. If you are gay, you were made gay at birth, and not by some single event that happened in your bedroom.
2006-08-11 10:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you masturbate to a guy and like it then your gay. but then you have to factor in if your aroused by girls as well. then you bi. which is a totally different ball park. some psychologist say men can be attracted to other men and NOT be gay but i just cant fit that into my skull.
2006-08-11 08:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by sined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, most us guys have masturbate at your age have masturbate together with another man. are think of your girlfriends at the time. or do think of your friends dick when you are both alone then you are gay
2006-08-13 12:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this make you gay? No this doesn't make you gay, It means you are curious, possibly gay, possibly Bi, but your actions don't make you gay, nothing "makes" you gay, it is just who you are, it sounds like you need to do a little soul searching and figure some things out for yourself, just be you, and be happy about who you are.
2006-08-13 04:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by StrongNSilentType 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean you jack off looking at naked guys.
I would not say that makes you gay but I would say at least bi-curious.
If you and a guy are jacking off together no you still are not gay. You are only gay if you and he want to do anal or if you are into gender bending behaviors. Or if you choose to identify as gay.
2006-08-11 07:59:23 · answer #11 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋