my guy friend is coming over to spend the night tonight. we decided on having sex. can you tell me what to do and good moves. and what not to do (NO ANAL STUFF THATS GROSS!)
2006-08-11 10:10:58 · 14 answers · asked by sneedman15 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just take it very slow and commuicate what you like and what you don't like - you have to figure out yourself.
2006-08-11 10:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'd rethink your position on anal. It is the best! Just have anyone receiving get an enema first. Have lube on hand and condoms.
No oral or anal with out a condom.
Massage each other. Carress each other all over. Run your fingers through each others hair.
Kiss each other all over.
Do suction all over your bodies.
French kiss.
Take turns lying on top of each other and kissing each other.
Shower before hand. Smell good. Have your teeth brushed. Trim your nails.
2006-08-11 17:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Practise oral sex, or ask what way he likes to jack off and give him a *******.
But if you're going to use your hands you might as well use your mouth too.
To have the most enjoyable sex you will ever have, just be open about what you guys would want to do, before you have sex, and talk about it. It could be really good foreplay, plus you'd have great sex, cause you'd be doing things that you're comfortable with.
2006-08-11 17:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Adam G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you two need to talk about what you want to do. If nmo anal, it'll be all oral and hands. let him make the first move and do the same as he does
2006-08-11 17:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if you are asking that questions. You are WAY too young to even think about anything going on tonight.
2006-08-12 05:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest for you to try and see yourself as masculine and tell your friend as such.
The Bible not only describes homosexuality behavior as detestable, but it also calls for punishment for those involved.
( Leviticus 20:13). Their unrepentant attitude caused God to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah.
Furthermore, just as homosexual conduct has been punished in the past, so it will also be punished by God in the future.
God has set forth His standards in the Bible, beginning with the foundational teaching in the book of Genesis, specifically ( Genesis 2:18-25).
Seriously reconsider your reasoning when meeting your friend!
2006-08-11 18:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
watch some erotic tv like animal planet and then put your arm around him when you pretend to yawn. then you tell him your favorite song is that one about "you and me baby ain't nothin but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the discovery channel." he should be able to pick up the hint from there. if not, tell him you want to get to know him, biblically. if still nothing, just reach down and unbutton his pants, telling him you won't bit unless he wants you to. if you still can't get him into bed, maybe he just wanted to come watch law and order and then go home.
2006-08-11 17:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let him take the lead, let him decide what to do, use your imagination, be a bottom and you´ll enjoy, I assure you.
2006-08-11 17:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Glittering angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just follow what feels natural. If he is experienced, you have no problems. If he isn't, neither of you are, and it could be really funny... Good luck
2006-08-11 17:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Start with oral or giving each other hand jobs, that's always fun. Take a long shower together.......
2006-08-11 17:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by JR 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋