my boy friend is spending the night to night. how do i start sex i dont just want to go lets have sex. then if we do have sex what are the moves i should do and what should i not do (NO ANAL THATS GROSS!)
2006-08-11 10:35:47 · 12 answers · asked by sneedman15 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
so that means your basically gonna be sticking with oral sex tonight then, cuz what are your other options? just start out normal with a little convo, then get some drinks out start whispering in his ear, telling him how good he looks, then start touching and caressing for like 20 minutes, then unzip him and start going to town.theres no way that he'll be objecting.good luck sweetie.
2006-08-11 10:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what you want to do is just start kissing, and before you know it you'll both be making out. Sooner or later those hormones are going to start raging and that's when you should make the first move (if he hasn't already). Just start undressing yourself while making out with him. Take off your shirt, and if he hasn't gotten the hint by then, undress yourself fully and if he's still clueless or nervous, either start undressing him or ask him what his problem is. More likely than not he'll get the idea and undress himself with you, and it'll go from there, just like kissing.
Remember how awkward it was when you had your first kiss? Remember how you were nervous and asked a bunch of people what to do and they all said "Just go with it," or whatever? Remember how eventually it turned out great? Yeah--that's what tonight'll be like, most likely.
You sound young to me, so if I were you, I'd make sure you two are alone in the house when this is taking place, or if your family's ok with it, that they know what you two will be doing behind closed doors. The last thing you want is a member of your family accidentally walking in on you two--especially if they don't know you're gay.
Good luck!
***Note: If you aren't young, I apologize.
2006-08-11 17:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The most important thing to remember is to just go with it. If you spend to much time and energy worrying about what you should do and how you should do it in won't be as enjoyable. If you and your boyfriend are attracted to each other then trust me it will happen but you will find that in the end you will do what feels natural. Not what people on this site tell you to do. So relax and have fun!!!
2006-08-11 19:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya!for you your boyfriend is spending the night it will be so much fun!start to touch his chest gentaly and then kiss his neck!then go further and further and it will just happenand you don't have to do anal...thats not your only option think of some stuff that turns you on and do it to him!!have fun
2006-08-11 17:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok you could start makeing out then put your hand in his pants i think that he will get the POINT lol then you could jerk each other off and B.J. s thats about the onlything i know of to do besids anal
2006-08-15 10:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by crazzykid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, isn't sex inserting a sex member into another sex member? So if not oral, what other type of sex is there?
2006-08-11 17:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down you just asked this question like 5 minutes ago I'm sure you'll get enough answers before tonight
2006-08-11 17:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by JR 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good LUck!
2006-08-11 23:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ethan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tape firecrackers to your wieners and have a blast.
2006-08-11 17:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him a back rub, and get him to take his shirt off.....take it from there.
2006-08-11 17:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋