2006-08-11 08:48:10 · 13 answers · asked by olga c 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I never knew ANYBODY who's bisexual relationships "worked out" because almost everyone wants to be in a monogamous relationship. Most people only want to be with ONE person, whether it is a gay or a straight relationship. Relationships in threes rarely work for people for that reason. One person always feels loved less or feels inadequate or there's jealousy or animosity. I think bisexual dating is ok if you don't get serious with someone. It isn't fair to expect your partner to be ok with you seeing other people, no matter what gender they are. Having someone on the side is STILL adding another person into the mix, and most people want a one-on-one. Got a boyfriend but you want a girl? DON'T GET SERIOUS with your boyfriend. Fell in love with a girl but you sometimes crave men? Too bad - end your relationship or forget about the boys and appreciate what you have! Gotta pick where your HEART is. I don't know ANY bisexuals who EVER dated BOTH successfully long term.
2006-08-11 09:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm going to have to go with Fairy on this one. Your question doesn't really work. Are you talking about an open dating relationship or about dating somebody who is bisexual or what? If you are dating a bisexual girl or guy then they should be faithful to you and you to them if the relationship is not open, like you're going steady. Bi people don't have to have both sexes, they are just attracted to both. You may have heard a bi myth. And so yeah, many people have had successful relationships with bisexuals, just like straight or lesbian/gay people.
2006-08-11 17:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please restate your question so it's comprehensible. Do you mean "Has anyone had a successful bisexual relationship?" or "Has anyone had a successful relationship with a bisexual person?" or "How can anyone have a bisexual relationship that's successful?" or what, exactly, do you mean. It's hard to tell if this is an ungrammatical biphobic rant or a sincere question that's hard to understand because of mechanical issues, and if it's the latter, then rephrased, it might elicit some useful commentary.
2006-08-11 08:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
For a g0y a bisexual relationship is actually quite accepted. G0y are not monogamous with other g0y unless it is a pair bonding experience and then it is complicated and dependent on the people in the relationship. A g0y is only monogamous with his wife or girlfriend. Being g0y any sexual intimacy you have with another g0y since it is not primarily of a penetrative nature is not anything to be jealous over. G0y see intimacy with their buds as just an extension of the friendship and you can have many friends. It is all part of the male bonding process. If I luv on my bud Jorge then how does that diminish my relationship with my bud Enrique likewise if Jorge and Enrique have an intimate friendship does that mean that I don't love either of them anymore. They are still my buds they both still have my back if I call either of them and need them to come get me because my car broke down at 3 am I know they would be there for me. Like wise if they called me I would get up and go help them out that is what being buds is all about. My wife and my relationship is different than my relationship with my buds. My wife and I make love and I would not go to another woman and have sex because that would be cheating. Because you penetrate a woman and penetration equals sex.
2006-08-11 09:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I've never been with a girl. I want to, but I just haven't found any that are bi or lesbian. It's really irritating due to the fact that I am in high school and have absolutely no gaydar whatsoever...*sigh*
However, I'm sure many people have had successful bisexual relationships.
2006-08-11 08:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ermm, I am not sure that I understand your question. But, I will attempt to answer it for you: I have had 1 relationship with a man- the father of my children, we were together for 8 years, so you can say that it was successful. But I had a few affairs with women, and I am very happy with the woman i am seeing right now. Have i been successful. Yes I think so...
2006-08-11 11:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you have a successful bisexual relationship? Wouldn't that mean you're with both a girl and a guy? So, since you're with two people, you're cheating on one thus, unsuccessful.
2006-08-11 09:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm bisexual and I've had lots of successful relationships. How rude.... Are you Hetro and Homo's successful in your relationships. This questions sounds pretty contrived to me and kind of accusatory like we cause bad relationships to happen.
Furthermore, why is there this misconception about Bisexuals that we want to screw more than one person at a time. WTF, we are ATTRACTED to both sexes, we don't want to do both at the same time people. Perhaps people should define the terms they are using. Ignorance,....SMH!
2006-08-11 08:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Fairy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do you mean a relationship with two people at the same time? if you do mean that well its probably not going to be sucsessfull, fun for one night but most people dont like to share.
2006-08-11 08:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by katyclover 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YESSSS :) havind sex with her at night eating pusss yummi yummi and day time was like dwck time... bobs, dwcks, pussss are agreat mix
2006-08-11 22:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋