Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - August 2006

Ok, I know why I love them! I know why straight men love them! I even know why lesbian women love them! But why have Madonna, Cher, Britney (ok, the cute Britney) become the icons of women for gay men. It's not a sex thing right? I mean *ahem*.

2006-08-01 07:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by queenofswords 1

Just curious ...Did it take time or did you just feel or have an intuition that you were ?

I hope you don't mind me asking this question

Thanks

2006-08-01 07:37:48 · 24 answers · asked by thatmsgirl 1

i drass as women for three weerk last at my school. iam not gay.

2006-08-01 07:27:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do I just go into the question and hit delete? That should permantely delete the old questions right?

2006-08-01 07:24:48 · 9 answers · asked by stale_poot 1

When someone kisses you, how significant is that kiss coming from someone you like/love? A good friend of mine has kissed me recently and was wondering how much everyone thinks a kiss holds.

2006-08-01 07:23:05 · 23 answers · asked by love earth 2

As this day approaches I am preparing a rememberance for those who died on 9/11. This rememberance will be for ALL who died, as they were all victims or heros.

I would also like to make a special annotation to those who perished that were part of my gay "family". A special thank you to them as we share something in common. If you knew of someone who perished in 9/11 that was gay please tell me their name and some information about them. You may post it on this question or through my contact information. Thank you

2006-08-01 07:20:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 07:17:04 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read this expression in news reports and editorials from time to time I'm wondering if the expression is a fair or valid one. Granted, there are some individuals who are "afraid" of homosexuals ("phobia") but I don't think that this describes all, or even a majority of people for whom this label is given. To be fair, I think there are VARIED perceived negative reactions to homosexuality: hate, fear, confusion, disgust, etc... and that fear is only a part of the negatively. That being said, is the term "homophobe" (specifically implying fear) an accurate term to use?

(And please don't read this question negatively. It isn't intended as such. I just read a number of op-eds and this term appears from time to time.)

2006-08-01 07:07:45 · 14 answers · asked by Rob 5

2006-08-01 07:04:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

So some are sayng if she left your dad for a man it would be ok with me. No it wouldn't but there isn't alot of pressure to accept that. This whole Gay explosion is a lil pressure I have to accept it and it's in my face all the time and My moms leaving my dad is what it brings me back to. My dad didn't talk about it with me much as a kid and I'm grown now so maybe we will. How could he talk about it then I know I wouldn't be able to. I don't hate gay people but I am very uncomfortable around Gay women, Gay dudes whatever man I'm not gay so......so what. I showing some nuts telling you people this but at the same time it's the only way I'll listen. I think I have a massive Phobia of Gay women, trusting wise. It's so much deeper now that I'm grown. Thanks for your answers I read them all a few times over and figure something out. If your new to the ? just read my last one you'll get caught up. If you have more to say please chime it's helping.

2006-08-01 06:56:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 06:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by mark q 1

No judgements from straights without understanding please!

What are somethings that you would love and what would you hate?

2006-08-01 06:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by Metacoma 3

In the current crisis

2006-08-01 06:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by mark q 1

I was sexually abused from ages 4 to 14 when i ran away from home. It was by my uncle who lived with us and still lives with my 'parents' I am lesbian but when i was 16 i was in a relationship with a man for a few months we had to break it off when his wife found out, a few weeks later i found i was pregnant. I had my daughter who lived with my sister for a while. After that i began dating only women and although sex was part of the liasons i felt and still feel guilty afterward. often times i would cry mysdelf to sleep after it. As i said in my last post i have had alot of good fortune but i can't shake this feeling of guilt when i have sex witrh my girlfriend. Mostly its because even when the abuse was happening as bad as it was it felt good. And i can't forgive myself for that. My girlfriend wants to use a strap on on me because i have NEVER let her in our entire 8 year relationship. i use one on her regularly but i can't stand the thought of being penetrated again even if it is

2006-08-01 06:09:42 · 6 answers · asked by Shane M 1

I am thinking about telling my friend tomorrow that I'm gay. I've known her for the past 8 years or so, and she is also married to a good friend of almost 20 years. Should I let her tell him or should I ask that I tell him myself?

2006-08-01 06:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She broke my heart and my dads heart to go off and date women. As a child Yes I hated her so much for making my dad cry like that, now People are like you should support her and love her and all this, What about the train wreck she left behind. I feel like if I accept her I am betraying my father cause no one stood up for him, I was to young to understand. I talk with her now but I hate her girlfriends prolly for no other reason then shes with my mom. Whats wrong with that? My mom has the nerve to bring the other chick around my father, I've kicked her out of our home evey time. I don't know why I can't get past this or even if I should. To be honest If I can't get past this I don't think I will be able to accept Gay people as a whole. This is a serious hurdle I don't know how to get past.

2006-08-01 06:01:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

becuz i am

2006-08-01 05:59:29 · 21 answers · asked by Zac 1

I grew up in a very abusive home you name it, its ben done to me. I ran away when i was 14 and i lived on the street until i met the woman who would later adopt me as her own child. I started modeling when i was 16 and I've been all over the world. I'm currently looking to start my own modeling agency. I have all this good fortune in my life and yet i cannot sleep without dreaming about what has happened in my past. I wake up sweating, crying, shaking on occasion i'm so sick that i throw up. And i often go into deep deep depressions that can last days at a time. Recently i got into an argument with my girlfriend of 8 years she accused me of being so wrapped up in my past that i don't give her the attention that she needs.she says my depression is hard to deal with and suggested that i get over what happened to me. I have been to countless psychiatrist and been on countless anti-depressants but no matter what my past is still front and center. Its putting a strain on our relationship

2006-08-01 05:46:17 · 12 answers · asked by Shane M 1

2006-08-01 05:36:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where do they live?

2006-08-01 05:34:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand homosexuality. If someone could please explain how you live a lifestyle that you do not choose,

or that some choose but not all,

or that some are partially and partially not,

or the principles involved in being homosexual.

How can you be homosexual when you're born and not be sexually active as a child?

How can you subscribe to a sexual lifestyle in childhood or even know that you have a sexual orientation, if you don't have sex at that age?

What does attraction have to do with sexual orientation?

Can you be a homosexual eunuch (Celibate?)

I just don't understand. Maybe since you live the lifestyle you can shed some light on these questions. I cannot accept what I don't at least have some basic understadning of. Just share with me the principles.

But please if you want me to read your answers, answer seriously. Give me the opportunity to grow.

2006-08-01 05:32:33 · 12 answers · asked by strong_beautifulqueen 2

I apologize for the insulting questions. I'm deleting all of my accounts and will return under a new name with a new and open attitude. Please forgive me. This means no mre "log" questions.

Thank you and have a nice day.

2006-08-01 04:59:32 · 21 answers · asked by stale_poot 1

2006-08-01 04:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 04:53:00 · 20 answers · asked by eap 2

Im just proud of it.

2006-08-01 04:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by brian_chris 1

If you are contact me.

2006-08-01 04:21:42 · 16 answers · asked by cute boy 1

I've read alot of people's answers on this saying that they 'used to be gay' and are now straight or bi, some say they used to be bi and are now gay or straight and so on. Do you, in your opinion, think this is possible, I personaly don't, I just cant see it happening, mabey these people just had a bad experience with someone and subconsiously decided not to like that sex in general, mabey it's a concious decision. But I think, if the right person came along, they would be back to their previous sexuality. I just don't think you can turn off your sexuality like a light switch. If we could every gay person who goes through a bad time with it, coming out and whatnot would choose to be straight, it's less complicated. Mabey I'm wrong, what do you think?

2006-08-01 04:21:16 · 13 answers · asked by Pazma 2

Mel Gibson has been a very outspoken homophobe for years. He casts himself as the holier than thou Catholic, producing Passion of Christ, speaking badly about "Gay Hollywood." He has gotten his just desserts as far as I can see...the great Mel Gibson, ranting and raving in a drunken stupor about JEWS! I believe that his Christ was a Jew, I know for a fact that Jew are prominent in Hollywood, and there are one heck of a lot of Jews everywhere. I hope he is now down in the heap with Tom Cruise. He has been a particularly disliked "star" in my book, for he had everything, and chose to use it against Gays whenever possible. Time wounds all heals, and his time has come. Coverup and all.

2006-08-01 04:12:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just because I am gay doesn't mean I became a women.

2006-08-01 03:48:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 03:43:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous