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Just because I am gay doesn't mean I became a women.

2006-08-01 03:48:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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I have been asked that before, and my response is do you see a set of B.O.O.B.S on his chest or mine, it looks like to me we are both men. We don't do females, that's why we are together.

2006-08-01 03:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-11-03 11:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by pachter 4 · 0 0

I do understand your point. People are very curious to find out the details of your private life. Basically they want to know rather or not you are the top or bottom in the relationship. However; its a limited and stereotyped assumption on their behalf. Many gay men are into oral sensation and not into the anal sex fetish. Therefore, one might question still why are you being ask rather or not you are the Male or Female.

In addition; are these people asking regarding the bedroom; or another factor as in dominance in the relationship. Sometimes, the bottom in the bed, can actually being the top in the relationship. However and in essence; I feel people should think about what they say and why they are saying anything without tact.

2006-08-01 04:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0 0

I know exactly how you feel. I dated someone where I was defiantly the more "male" of the two but that because I'm just not usually that open or physical about our relationship in public and more grounded. But it really bothered me about our relationship when people made statements like that and my girlfriend would just agree with them. It was weird to be labeling a gay relationship like that, but I’ve seen straight relationships with the same kind of questioning problems. One of my friends is a manager at a retail store and supports her musician husband and I see people make comments like that to her all the time. I know it bothers her but at least she doesn’t let it ruin her relationship or change the way they live. She loves her job and he loves being a musician the labels shouldn’t matter.
When people ask me these days I usually look down and look at my breasts (I know you can't do this) and say something like "Oh thank god still a girl." Making it into a joke bordering on the slightly inappropriate usually helps people to never ask again.
Don’t let people get to you, and good luck!
-G

2006-08-01 03:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by G 2 · 0 0

Hell yes I get mad. Especially when people assume I'm the guy in the relationship, just because I don't dress like a bimbo and cake on a bunch of makeup, yet I wear fitted jeans, usually fitted t shirts, big hoop earrings, and I just go with my natural look, people still assume I'm the guy. There is no such thing, as the role play in a lesbian or gay relationship.

2006-08-01 04:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0 0

To people who defended the question, you're completely missing the point.


Depending on my mood, it's either: "we're both guys; DUH" or I'll go through the time to explain that societal gender roles, especially where they apply to romantic relationships, are arbitrary and unnecessary. you would need to ask MUCH more specifically to get an answer; some things I tend to be more "masculine" with and something more "feminine". I think gay relationships are at an advantage to break through gender roles and become more truly equal partnerships.

2006-08-01 14:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0 0

With all due respect I think you should look at what they're trying to ask rather than how they're asking it. Ignore their ignorance and recognize that what they're probably trying to ask is "who wears the pants in this relationship" which is a question asked to most anyone in a relationship.

2006-08-01 03:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Scadle 4 · 0 0

I believe they could be asking if you are a top or bottom. If someone asked me that I would probably say I was the women as I am a bottom.

2006-08-01 09:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by wantit27 3 · 0 0

Perhaps they mean who is the dominant partner and who is the submissive? All relationships are like that to some extent.
I agree though, the comment is a little insensitive.

2006-08-01 03:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0 0

Since you can't "become" anything but what God made you, you are a man. And you can only decide in your "natural sin" whether to sin or not sin.

You were born who you were supposed to be. By your own decision, you will choose to defile who you.are if you practice the perversions of a homosexual.

2006-08-01 03:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am with you I would find it offensive but mildly so. I would ask them if his wife is that dominate one does that make him the woman in the relationship. Point it back at them that is the only way to show them the error of their ways.

2006-08-01 04:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0 0

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