becuz i am
2006-08-01 05:59:29 · 21 answers · asked by Zac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No.
YOU need some serious help. If you think you can change .. have at it. And in 3 years when you haven't changed .. get over it!
2006-08-01 06:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO. LOVE BEING GAY. ANYONE DOESN'T LIKE THAT I'M GAY CAN KISS MY
LESBIAN A##. Please go check the gay center, the gay hotline, a school gay/straight alliance group and of course PGFLAG. They will all be there for you in your journey. I didn't know I was gay until I was already married for a few years. What a dim light bulb I was!! You have been fed lots of religious horse manure about it being a sin. You will have to get past that. Contact PFLAG. You will meet parents/friends/family of gay people who all have been some place along the path of acceptance.
The first thing is to accept yourself. You need to be around other gay people who are happy & well-adjusted. Please don't do anything stupid. Check out planetout's message boards. There are a lot of people (different ages) who are having trouble coming out. Forget others- you must live in your own shoes. It's not bad. It's different. Sometimes it is inconvenient. Sometimes it's scary. But it can be very happy and filled with great friends. That's part of what 'gay community' means-- you pick your new family just in case your biological one fails you. In friendship --(feel free to write)
2006-08-05 04:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to find out why you turned to your own sex in the first place.If you were not born with the wrong hormones ,there is an external reason ,usually some kind of fear very well repressed.If you deal with that ,you have a very good chance.Analysis usually helps to determine the problem.
If you want to turn because you don't feel good inside,if it doesn't feel quite right to be gay ,go for it.But don't do it for social reasons.Who cares what people say if you are happy!
Good luck whatever you decide
2006-08-05 00:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you want to be straight, it's a matter of self discipline. You have to want to be straight more than gay, plus, you just have to control your urges. Much like the people in the early century had to because it was something that could completly shatter your image. For ever. But now its much more socially acceptable. Good Luck.
2006-08-04 11:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Fashionvista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a tip, im not gay, lol. but its all in your mind, all you have to do is just get over it, and just find the power and strength in you, your just stopping yourself from thinking about how your gay, you need to just overcome that thought that your gay, and some how seek help from the Higher Power above us. good luck! its good that you wanna turn straight, thats the way people are supposed to be, don't let people brainwash you into thinking that its okay to be gay, its not, people aren't born gay, and its up to you to take control of your mind and turn straight.
2006-08-02 22:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I congratulate you. I am not gay but I always respect those gay wanted to be straight because I believe they are going to have a good life ahead.
2006-08-01 13:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you accept being brainwashed by some right-wing hater group?There is nothing wrong with your natural orientation.Proove there is.
Besides learning to spell,you might want to try expanding your sphere of influence a little.Not everyone is trying to control you,unlike the weirdos who are trying to change you.
2006-08-01 13:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not lie i think I am Bi and it goes againist everything I belive so I am in the same boat. I think I will just try to accept that and so should you. okay my caseis easier because I can be with both but have only been with one guy and not all the way. Long story just take good advice from experinced peps and accept yourself.
2006-08-01 14:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by coolhandjoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free to choose your sexual orientation, I'm not going to fight that decision, I'm gay, your trying not to be gay, that's your choice, but if you are going to do it, don't ruin someone else life, i mean if you get married and have children, don't come on latter trying to sleep around because your have your "needs" and bull etc, undestand...... chooce a life and stick with it no matter what ok, please............
2006-08-01 14:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by snorlax72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya can't do it. you can try, but you will just be miserable. about a third of people who try to change straight wind up killing themselves because the process is ultimately hopeless and all you learn is how to hate yourself. i will never underestimate a person's ability to convince themselves of a lie, but even if you convince yourself you are straight, the feelings will never, ever go away. and your future wife is going to absolutely hate you.
2006-08-01 14:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by scruffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we've all tried that....i came out when i was 10...im going on being out for 10 years now...and...it really has made me a a stronger person having came out so long ago..granted i had to go through middle school and high school dealing with the hardship...but as long as you have good friends...no one can bring you down...dont "choose" to go straight...but if thats how you feel...then no one can make your mind up for you.
2006-08-01 13:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by sille_leakim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋