Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - August 2006

Bare with me. So, a while ago I cheated on my amazing, beautiful, smart, talented (now ex) girlfriend. We went through hell with that. Me with her, her with me. Her going out with other girls while I felt like dying etc. I cheated on her because I felt obligated by the other girl...that may be hard to understand but try. I did not want to cheat on her. It just happened, I regretted it and I still do. We moved past that though into bigger problems. We both decided to just date others like a normal broken up couple. We both hated this. I hated seeing her with other girls and shes told me she didnt really enjoy it either...Anyways I met this new girl. We'll call her Gia. Gia is really very great, she makes me feel good and is very sweet. I was dating her for a little bit...I still sort of am. Gia also always whines and complains and is a bad influence for sure. Anyway, Me and my ex made love again the other night. She wants to get back together. I want to...but then again...?What do I do?

2006-08-26 02:48:03 · 19 answers · asked by hermosa 2

2006-08-26 02:39:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-08-26 02:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 01:59:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

And it has lasted longer then a quick fling?

2006-08-26 01:29:13 · 25 answers · asked by kitpoodle 4

I have been thinking about me being married. I honestly and truly never want to get married or live with anyone that I am intimately involved with. I am in a relationship now. I love my girlfriend, everything is great. But I know for sure that I never want to move into together. It not just because it is her, I'd feel that way about anyone. I feel more comfortable being a loner. Do you think this is normal? Do you think something is abnormal?

2006-08-26 01:24:44 · 26 answers · asked by metrogurl 2

hmm, i had a few months' run at very casual crossdressing (thanks YA) this summer, but now that i've moved to a new town and new college (i've been here almost 4 weeks now), i haven't done any of it.

i have done tons and tons of lusting after the girls that fill this campus; UGA has gotta have the best looking girls of any college in the US, and i've been at a lot of them, but i digress.

sure, i still along with wishing i was with them wish that i *were* them, but both are reaching extremes because i'm surrounded by this ultra-sexuality. cute skirts on all cute girls, check. cute bras on all cute girls, almost check. thankfully appropriate makeup (just the right amount; varies from none to a lot of) on all cute girls, check.

but then again, being a 1st-year Ph.D. student has presented me with bunches of stresses that i didn't think would be stresses, and not knowing anyone has bothered me much more than i thought it would.

2006-08-26 01:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 01:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does strong, unbreakable faith in Christianity really have that kind of power?

My guess is no. What do you think?

2006-08-26 01:17:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

their abuse is uncalled for and they don't realise how upsetting and nasty they're comments can be, don't u agree?

2006-08-25 23:43:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 and have told my mum, dad and brothers that I'm gay, they were fine about it. I've told my best friend (girl) also and she is totally cool with it, she's glad I told her. I've never had a real gf/bf in the past but I know I'm ready now. 15 is young but the city I live in, it's common for people to loose their virginity at 13/14/15, I'm not trying to be like "everyone else" but I would like to have a bf. I have a bi friend who used to be in my class until he left a few months ago to get a full time job, we talk on msn most nights (yes I have met him...we were in class together) and it is certain he likes me, I like him too and I think he has his suspisions that I'm gay, he's asked me b4 but I just denied it. Most people at school think i'm gay and have been badly bullied because of it, things are sooo much better now and people don't have a problem with me even though I haven't admitted I'm gay. Anyway I want to know how I can ask my Bi friend out and still remain half closeted?

2006-08-25 23:33:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted this in the religion and spirituality section:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AozlqSSlWCN9fqrgdB9VX3zsy6IX?qid=20060826025630AA0je3q

Do you think I have a valid point? Why do christians primarily focus their attention on the homosexual lifestyle, instead of their own sinning lifestyles?

2006-08-25 23:27:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 23:09:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some teens are attracted to their own peer and age groups. Others to adults. What's your memories on this? All GLBT and straight people invited to answer this question.

2006-08-25 22:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

B C schools are being called discriminatory because a homosexual couple is asking that independant schools be included in their complaint to the BC Human Rights Tribunal alleging systematic discrimination against homosexuals in the educational system. The couple, who are both teachers claim a lack of positive portrayals of gays and lesbians in the curriculum.
Yet, in another part of the country, the Muslims want the right to settle their differences involving issues such as divorce, custody and inheritance using Sharia Law. Sharia is a 1300 yr old body of laws and rules for living inspired by Islam's holy book the Quran. An expert in Islamic law and politics said from past experiences with Islam in other nations, Sharia law is often a first step in demands for a separate Sharia state. Sharia law alters definitions of morality justice, and even terms like democracy and human rights.
And even more, the stage may be set for renewed debate in parliament on legalizing assisted suic

2006-08-25 21:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by trieghtonhere 4

I knew that my girlfriend was talking to this girl that she called a "friend". we broke up over it, and she said she would stop talking to her if i took her back, i did, then busted her again for the same girl...so we broke up again, but since we live together I tried to be civil and be her friend anyways. She kept crying and telling me she loved me, and then today i found out that she was planning to get with the other girl a day after we broke up, the SAME girl...why play did she play with my heart, why not just let me go? what did i do to deserve this? i never cheated, and tried to be the best girlfriend i could, so where did i go wrong?

2006-08-25 21:36:47 · 16 answers · asked by Yahooligan85 2

what are some good lines and or websites for dominating another person?

2006-08-25 21:21:12 · 4 answers · asked by Langdon 3

...of the lines in the Bible that they do not put to practice in their daily lives? The real reason is that they feel disgust and prejudice toward homosexuals, and that’s fine. Think whatever you want to think. However, they find it suitable to use the Bible to justify their hate, perceived superiority, and other atrocious acts. Religion has been a tool for one group to gain one up (to achieve complete and total domination and control) over the other group throughout centuries. I think that, if they are going to focus on the very one abomination of homosexuality, they should do it for all the other things that are mentioned in the Bible that is not condoned in all of the various passages, or all of the things written that they must do to avoid an undesirable outcome. This kind of hypocrisy somewhat discredits the religion of Christianity. If they are going to apply something to one, they must apply for all. Whatever happened to trying to achieve equality, especially in the Bible?

2006-08-25 21:00:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously? What's the big deal, gay people are gonna date and there's nothing you freaks can do about it, instead of seeing two guys walking down the street holding hands, you'll see them wearing wedding rings too *Gasp*! Oh My God! seriously live and let live, why do you want them to be miserable? If your so against gay marriage, than shouldn't you be trying to illegalize adultry? It ruins the sanctity of marriage, it's against the christian religion, and unlike gay marriage, it actually hurts people, it hurts the wife, the kids, the relatives. Also sometimes the mistress will have aids, and the guy will catch it and give it to his wife, and if she gives birth, the kids will have it. So c'mon, you can't honestly hate gay marriage more than adultry when it's so much more worse in so many ways. And you know what else? Not everyones christian, so we shouldn't have to follow your beliefs.

2006-08-25 20:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by RainKid 2

It does seem the bashers are having less success now. Should we talk as a community about how to uniformly answer these kinds of questions?

2006-08-25 19:06:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible for you to fall in love with the opposite sex?

I am bi and I just don't see the point in limiting yourself. Yes, you will probably always have feelings for the same sex I know this. But that doesn't mean that people that are hetero or homo won't ever have attractions to other people as well. What's your take on this. What if love just came up and slapped you in the face with someone from the opposite sex, what would you do? Would you be happy?

2006-08-25 18:44:08 · 14 answers · asked by icreateidesign 1

Why has it become so popular these days. Pain and pleasure mixed. self digit amputation? I have gotten most of my info from sites like BME HARD and so on. Why do I feel more complete after my own self piercings? At this time I have no desire to perform the things i see others doing. but I have a need to be tatoo'ed soon.

2006-08-25 18:14:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 18:04:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in straight relationships all my life. Have many gay & lesbian friends but I've never had any tendencies no matter how much time I spend with them. Recently got out of a relationship with a guy so I was feeling pretty depressed. I started hanging out with a group of gay women and suddenly found myself attracted to one of them. To be more specific, we have been spending a lot of time together and I am attracted to her personality so I started weighing the possibilities of being with a woman. Somehow, I am not attracted to her sexually. Don't get me wrong, she is cute and attractive but I don't feel the same way I felt when I was dating my ex boyfriend. She is the only woman who has affected me this way.

2006-08-25 18:04:30 · 24 answers · asked by Still confused 1

2006-08-25 17:24:19 · 9 answers · asked by neutrals 3

Do you know who in your family is Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender? Where out there, we are the people you love and we love you so much we won't risk hurting you or have you hurt Us. We are your kids and brothers sisters and cousins and yes we are your parents, what we are has nothing to do with you but yet you spread your hate and we sit and watch you do it and can't ever tell you the truth. Do you see me now?

2006-08-25 17:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by Super 4

Gay is a sin. Since I grew up I have only known 2 gays to live here in Armstrong Iowa. Dad always kept the families away from them. Why would anyone want to go to hell? Its not even right. Pops made up a saying once, and now it seems like everyone is copying off of him by using it. he always said, "Its not Adam and Steve its Adam and EVE." Why do other guys want to do other guys up the butts? There is this guy Mac who has been following me around on here. I think he may be gay as well. Can everyone pray for him?

2006-08-25 17:01:24 · 30 answers · asked by KarlJames 1

ok am asian and am 24 yrs old..am bi and looking for omeone who i can be friend and be my inspiration in life, to share my love, my care and my dream.. am christian and now working in kuwait..
just want to have someone special out there..

2006-08-25 16:58:20 · 12 answers · asked by Student 2

I'm really naffed off, especially since I know that all my mates and my girlfriend are out all weekend! If you can't go and you really want to, why can't you go and are you a bit miffed too like me?

2006-08-25 16:56:17 · 9 answers · asked by Karen S 3