Some teens are attracted to their own peer and age groups. Others to adults. What's your memories on this? All GLBT and straight people invited to answer this question.
2006-08-25 22:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was mostly attracted to guys my own age but did find the occasional older guy cute. It seems to me that a lot of younger guys THESE days are looking to older men, and I have a theory as to why...
I'm 33, but when i was 14 or 15 I didn't DARE come out, as it would have resulted in daily beatings. But these days, kids are coming out younger and younger, and not dealing with as much hatred. I believe that since boys are coming out so young now, a lot of times it causes a strained relationship between them and their fathers. Then, they look to older gay guys as kind of "father figures", who will accept them for who they are. This results in a "daddy complex", making them attracted to older men.
Make sense?
2006-08-26 05:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by pceej 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a teen, I was attracted to others a bit older than I by probably 10-15 years. I always found those my age too immature and way too vapid. When I got in my twenties I still liked most older than I but was starting to appreciate my peers more. Now that I'm in my 40s I like those my age and older.
2006-08-26 01:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been and always will be attracted to guys either 2 or 3 years older or younger than me and guys my own age. It was the same way back in school. Even then I knew what I wanted but was unsure how to get it.
2006-08-26 00:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by James25NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to like the guys 4-6 years older than I am. Although it isn't something that I must have or even look for. It usually happens that I find a guy that is attractive to me and then find out he is a few years older. It's always been like that, even when I was a teenager.
2006-08-25 23:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by drnotwhoyouthinkiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was attracted to people my age and slightly older and now it is the other way round!
2006-08-25 22:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When I was 15, I finally admitted to myself that I'm bi. I just put up excuses for my crushes on girls, like saying I just admired them or something. But all were my same age or slightly older.
2006-08-25 22:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was attrcted to other guys my own age and a few maybe a year or two older
2006-08-26 05:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was, and still am, attracted to guys and girls my age and younger.
2006-08-26 06:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm attracted guys at my age and older, not younger. nope. unless he is super duper hot and look mature.
2006-08-25 22:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by meilingqian89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same age
2006-08-25 22:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋