And it has lasted longer then a quick fling?
2006-08-26 01:29:13 · 25 answers · asked by kitpoodle 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It hasn't happened yet but there has been quite a bit of flirtaion. I don't think i get take it any further.
2006-08-26 02:46:31 · update #1
i worked on a chatline 10 years ago.unaware that i may be a lesbian.met a women and went out with her on and off for 2 years.she was a total crazy biatch.very voilent.so i vowed never again.then about 4 years ago i went out with a girl at work where i work still.we went out for 2 months.she was my rebound gf from one that had just gone backpacking for a year and so i was very confused .we just got drunk all the time.had zero in common.anyway we broke up and she then moved in with a guy at work and they went out for 2 years.she caused me loads of trouble at work.i even walked out once
2006-08-26 02:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I would like to point out I am not a slapper lol but yes I have got together with someone from almost every job I have done. Starting from when I was 18 having a fling with the MD, through to 5 years ago when I had a full blown relationship with a college. I think it makes the job less boring if you have a bit of sexual tension. lol
2006-08-26 09:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by beckywecky 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you consider a short fling. I've (I'm sad to admit) done this twice. One relationship lasted 9 months the other 3 or 4. Both were bad ideas and you'd imagine I'd learn after the first one but I didn't.
The bad thing is that if it doesn't work out one person is always hurt and you have to deal with it.
My first experience was at a less serious job and the person moved away - so it wasn't as bad - but when there was tention in the relationship it was awkward at work. He was my manager as well which added another demention to it. However, it was embarrasing even after he left because people found out and it was over and it was just not a very pleasant experience.
The second one was at the job I'm still in. And it was very difficult. We broke up and months later I got together with my ex, and he took it very badly. Two years later we don't even talk to each other because he couldn't deal. He'd call me, e-mail me etc... saying he wanted to get back together and it was very awkward (this is two years after). And its a shame. I've always stayed close with most of my exs and I'd like to be friends with him but it just doesn't work. And we have the same friends at work which has made things very difficult. Now he's dating someone else who apparently is very jealous so he can't go anywhere where I will be. If I go to lunch, he won't go. If I go out for drinks after work he won't go. If he plans to go, comes and I'm there, he'll leave.
If you haven't already gotten involved - I wouldn't. It makes moving on much more difficult - for both parties.
2006-08-26 08:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Someone Else 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unusual about getting with someone from work. Whether it will last longer or not depends on what you want from the relationship : for satiating mutual desires or filling in each others' void or just a go getter sort of fling. Problem, however, is that you are not sure what you want !! ASK YOURSELF.
2006-08-26 10:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by jhasa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it was a long time ago, and I was younger. It didn't work out because in the end, I couldn't do the "straight" thing. And it was a hassle at work. We didn't have to keep it secret, and we didn't, but still when something would come up on a work level, other people would suspect that it was personal. I'd never advise it, and never do it again. Even if you were hetero/homo compatable, which was our major problem.
2006-08-26 09:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I met my husband at work. We have been together for just over 9 years and married for 7 and have 2 children.
2006-08-26 08:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Minnie M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes met a guy at work and was dating him for 5.5 yrs!
broke up with him 6 months ago and we still work together and we are now the best of friends!!
try it
but be warned if u get in too deep and break up u have to see that person every day so be carfull of ur emotions and all that!!
2006-08-26 11:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by princessnicola23 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Married one, and dated the others for a number of years each.
Regret the marriage, lasted 6 months.
Dating the others, very interesting, loved every minute of our relationships.
It would be very interesting to see how their lives turned out.
2006-08-26 08:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, but I wish I had the chance to get it on with the boss' younger brother in the printing room. That must be cool to have a lover at work, makes life more interesting, eh.
2006-08-26 08:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, and apparently it's like "shitting on your own doorstep". Wise words from Gareth Keenan, Assistant TO the Regional Manager (The Office).
2006-08-26 09:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by spaghettios4891 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋