hmm, i had a few months' run at very casual crossdressing (thanks YA) this summer, but now that i've moved to a new town and new college (i've been here almost 4 weeks now), i haven't done any of it.
i have done tons and tons of lusting after the girls that fill this campus; UGA has gotta have the best looking girls of any college in the US, and i've been at a lot of them, but i digress.
sure, i still along with wishing i was with them wish that i *were* them, but both are reaching extremes because i'm surrounded by this ultra-sexuality. cute skirts on all cute girls, check. cute bras on all cute girls, almost check. thankfully appropriate makeup (just the right amount; varies from none to a lot of) on all cute girls, check.
but then again, being a 1st-year Ph.D. student has presented me with bunches of stresses that i didn't think would be stresses, and not knowing anyone has bothered me much more than i thought it would.
2006-08-26 01:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
thus, probably i should just not even think about CDing and just try to settle down and make sure i get done what i have to get done, i.e. my Ph.D. classes' homework and research. right? and worry about girls and friends and my weirdo fetishes later?
2006-08-26 01:23:45 · update #1
so r you a man who dresses like a girl or a girl who dresses like a man??
2006-08-26 01:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you have a lot on your plate already, dear.
Get done what needs to be done (with your P.H.D.!) I'm not saying that you should ignore your sexuality. I'm sure thaat even at U.G.A there is a gay pride club or some sort of outlet where you could indulge in a spot of cross-dressing on the weekends...maybe you just don't feel relaxed enough to C.D. Balance work with down time and try to get in a little bit of C.D.ing- good luck.
2006-08-26 10:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Fancy Pants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. More pressing issues have taken your mind off cding. I think if you do some reading adout other CDs you'll find that they go through periods of non-dressing throughout their lives. Once your life is less hectic the urge will probably come back.
2006-08-26 10:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer, your in school to learn and get your Ph.D so do it the rest will work itself out in due time. 1st things first and good luck.
2006-08-30 10:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by flower wanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All CDs purge from time to time but it's never permanent. Face it you're TG and always will be. If you feel good not doing it at this time that's great.
Tammi Dee
2006-08-26 11:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, whoever that is! If you enjoy crossdressing then it can reduce your stress!
Go Dawgs!
2006-08-31 20:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U M-F or F-M?? It DOES make a difference in our society.
2006-08-30 14:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u r not crossdressing now,try to avoid it
2006-08-31 02:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are serious
2006-09-01 16:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋