Cultures & Groups - 20 October 2006

2006-10-20 23:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

im a gay virign. i have been going out with this guy for a year now and well he says if i dont sleep with him he is going to leave me. should i let him take my virginity or should i wait? should i go all the way or should i just perform oral? what if he has an STD?

2006-10-20 23:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by 1q2w3e 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

what do you do to fall asleep im so tired right now that my eyes are starting to hurt but i have been up and out of bed 4x's tonight its 4am and i have to work at 8 what can i do???

2006-10-20 22:56:48 · 14 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-20 22:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I was chatting to a gay person and when I asked them how they knew they were gay they said they always sort of knew and that they thought it was genetic. If so, i asked, how do you explain bisexuality and is being gay not just a lifestyle choice? What do you think?

2006-10-20 22:22:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I know that this is a dumb question but does it have something to do with the Western media and how they protrey Asians? They always show Asians with a "certain" look and most other Asians that I have talked to agree that Hollywood usually display the most unattractive asian people, so in theory many people think all Asians look like the ugly ones on T.V.

And another thing when people say that all Asians look the same are they talking about the "East Asian" types? Like the Japanese, Koreans, and Chinese?

There are many more types of Asians besides the East Asian, like Southeast Asians (Laotian, Thai, Burmese, Vietnamese etc. and most have big eyes w/double eyelids and fair to brown skin) and South Asians like Pakistanis, Indians, etc., also big eyes w/double eyelids and all skin types why do some people say all asians look the same?

Asia is the biggest contenant in the world it is a ridiculous statement to make to say that over 60% of the world's population is all the same right?

2006-10-20 21:29:00 · 17 answers · asked by ddDan86 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

About 2 years ago I had short fling with a woman who was a veeery long time in a relationship and was cheated by her partner. It ended that they got back together and I was really hurt.
Now they split up and she starts coming on to me again. To be honest there are still feelings, but beeing dumped once, resulted in a lack of trust. What should I do?

2006-10-20 20:52:01 · 21 answers · asked by Starlight 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I KNOW THEY are watching me I DON'T CARE what is so offensive about this question,,,,and also,,whem somebody says homosexuality is a choice ,,why do people say that then logically that heterosexuality is a choice,also,,,that doesn't make sense ,,heterosexuality is a natural lawfor reproduction,,you can't choose that biologically ,,,homosexuality is a sexual behavior like,,oral sex,,,,,,one chooses to drink alcohol and become addicted,,,the accohol doesn't choose them,,,,you can't make a choice to be heterosexual,,but being homosexual is always a choice even if it is sub-conscious to some degree,,,I don't belive there is anything wrong with homosexual behavior,,I just believe that it is no way biologically programmed,,,it is total preference of pleasure,,,mainly due to anxiety and fear of heterosexual relations for a number of different reasons,,,what do you think be kind and respectful,,,,let the hate mail begin,,,tell me your mind,,please don't report me,,,that is so craven

2006-10-20 20:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by betty 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Really--- what the hell is so great about rope burn?

2006-10-20 20:15:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I was at homecoming and all these girls were rolling there eyes at me and giving me dirty looks. I was dancing with a lot of guys there.And when I got back to school on monday, all of these girls were staring at me and whispering about me. And there were false rumors going around school that I had slept with the football team. And everyone was just callign me a ho and a slut. I did nothing to these girls, why are tey bothering me?

2006-10-20 18:11:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

to live thinking that everytime someone ask or says something about someone of another race that is its percieved racially motivated hatred? and then they wonder why race relations are in a degraded state instead of advancing to one of understanding?

2006-10-20 17:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

what is prep?

2006-10-20 17:47:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Things will have to soon change otherwise ppl in droves are going to leave for more happening sites.

2006-10-20 17:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by steveshoardhouse 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Ok, well, I came out to my parents last weekend, and my Mom was like, "Ok." I asked her what she meant, and she told me that she had suspected for quite some time, especially when I didn't date in high school. (Small community, not many "out" people)

When I told my Dad, he didn't really say much. After a couple minutes of awkward silence, he said "Ok." Later, my Mom said he told her that he was disappointed in me. I decided to test the water a little by telling him that he could tell people (specifically his side of the family) and he changed the subject on me!!!

I figured it could be shock, but my Mom said that he wouldn't talk too much about it; other than to ask her how she felt about it, and whether or not she knew. He asked her if she was going to tell anyone, and my Mom said she would. After talking with my Mom again since, she said he hasn't really discussed it with her even though she tries to get him to talk with her.

Do you guys have any idea what I should do next?

2006-10-20 17:36:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Im a girl and i love men, but for some reason i fantasise (sp) about gay men, is it just like men who go crazy with lesbians, or am i just weird? Maybe i was gay in a past life...i dont know...!?

2006-10-20 17:25:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Can anybody tell me why?

I see most black guys wear hats...

there must be some culture we don't know..


One more question...sometimes wearing hats for a long time make me feel dizzy or uncomfortable..

any one has the same feeling?


I am so wodnering how come black people can always wear hats....don't they sometimes feel not good?

2006-10-20 17:19:57 · 26 answers · asked by MMy LEE J 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Well after being married for 7 years and having 4 kids I just don't know what to think. I think it's just ceriosity but it happens way too often in my opinion cuz it doesen't matter where I am or what I'm doing I get feeling really weird when I have the slightest thought of being with the same sex. please help me to understand myself!! any answer is better than mine (I just don't know!!)

2006-10-20 17:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by till.tomorrow 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm bi, and befriend well with some female also. I'm currently in relationship with a caring and loving guy... so I tell her that I'm not interested. Still, she doesn't seem to give up easily and still wants me.... Tell me, what should I do then? Should I tell my bf? I don't want to ruin all my relationship here, so help me, please?

2006-10-20 16:58:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Extremely loud and deep bass has been scientifically linked with suppressed homosexual desire (source-www.bedy.org) The institute for Psycholigical research in Pembry, Rhode island recently discovered that your brain makes chemicals while listening to very loud deep bass that are *identical* to the chemicals made in the brain when a man has a strong urge to perform felatio and other homosexual acts upon other men. Furthermore The psychological effect of being exposed to very loud bass for long periods of time has been found to actually satisfy the listener's Profound Homosexual Desire as a replacement for the graphic Homosexual Activity the indivudual secretly lusts for. This determines that the overall purpose of extremely loud bass is to satisfy a person's secret homosexual desire, enabling them to go longer without acting on the pent up homosexual craving, which is socially unexceptable in the Rap culture.

Based on a 4 month multi-ehtnic study of 61 males aged 16-34

2006-10-20 16:48:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-20 16:27:04 · 2 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-20 16:12:50 · 17 answers · asked by artistray 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Assuming that homosexuals are born that way (which I believe), would you be offended by the idea that it is a genetic flaw? What if it was scientificly found to be a genetic disorder? I'm asking in light of a conversation I had with a gay friend (he brought up the theory, not I). Just curious as to what the larger community had to say.

2006-10-20 16:06:20 · 21 answers · asked by Conniebug 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

please no ignorant responses

2006-10-20 16:04:27 · 30 answers · asked by justine 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I want to share this with you all because I don't have anything against Gay Folks, I think we are all the same and if we can laugh and enjoy life then it's all good. Please let me know what you think and how you feel about my joke, Thanks.

An old cowboy sat down at the Star bucks and ordered a cup of coffee.
As he sat sipping his coffee, a young woman sat down next to him.
She turned to the cowboy and asked, "Are you a real cowboy?"
He replied, "Well, I've spent my whole life breaking colts, working cows,
going to rodeos, fixing fences, pulling calves, bailing hay, doctoring
calves, cleaning my barn, fixing flats, working on tractors, and feeding
my dogs, so I guess I am a cowboy."

She said, "I'm a lesbian. I spend my whole day thinking about women. As
soon as I get up in the morning, I think about women. When I shower, I
think about women. When I watch TV, I think about women. I even think
about women when I eat. It seems that everything makes me think of
women."

The two sat sipping in silence.
A little while later, a man sat down on the other side of the old cowboy
and asked, "Are you a real cowboy?! "
He replied, "I always thought I was, but I just found out that I'm a
lesbian."

2006-10-20 15:48:08 · 15 answers · asked by basscatcher 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-20 15:43:27 · 16 answers · asked by Dr Know It All 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Someone asked in here if you feared muslims. My answer was: No don't fear muslims, just dont trust the radical ones. 911 HELLO. and they have a doctrine to kill the infidels(nonmuslims) Is this a wrong answer?

2006-10-20 15:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

The prologue: OK, we have many people coming here and asking or debating on whether we are born gay or we made a choice.
Not all of them are bigots, some people didnt have the opportunity to ask someone or get educated. And most of them back their comments (of it being a choice) using the "researches" of psychologists and scientists.
The question: Isn't it obvious that these "psychologists" have their own agendas? I mean, when you start a research it is going to head one way if you are biased in the first place. I am pretty sure that they start their research thinking: "OK, I think it is a choice so I will try to prove it". And obviously you can interpret the results according to your opinion and not the facts. I am sure that they dont start with the "lets see what makes someone gay" mentality.
What do you think?

2006-10-20 15:24:02 · 22 answers · asked by Nostromo 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Sweet tea or straight tea?
Cat, dog, bird, snake, lizard, rabbit, hampster, rat, or mouse?
Favorite TV series?
Punk, goth, emo, rap, country, classical, indie, pop,alternative, or...?
Boycotting French wine: Good idea or bad? Or just stupid?
Favorite movie?
Favorite book?
Favorite magazine?
I like cookies! T/F?
Commercials nowadays are stupid. T/F:
Do you collect anything?

2006-10-20 15:01:18 · 17 answers · asked by Strange Design 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Okay this guy in my drama class was reading a monologue he written by himself about being sexually abused. I almost started crying. it was so really how it acted it out. Anyways, the boys in the back of the class all bursted out laughing like it was funny.

2006-10-20 14:57:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

do you believe that if gay people are born gay, then theres a chance pediphils are also born pediphils? the only reason why im comparing pediphils with homosexuals, is because they both have different sexual desires than the common hetrosexual. if someone has a desire to have sex with children, he's still considered a pediphil, even if he didnt commit a crime. im also not saying being gay is wrong, because theres nothing wrong with 2 willing adults having sex. if you think scientists can prove that gay people are born gay, then couldnt they also prove that pediphils are also born pediphils?

2006-10-20 14:56:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender