Cultures & Groups - 16 October 2006

I’m an eighteen year old female and for now, I say I’m straight. I’ve always dated guys and have had a few relationships that have last a year or longer. I broke up with my (ex) boyfriend of a few months, a few weeks ago because I felt like there was no connection. For maybe a year now, I’ve looked at other girls/women and found myself attracted to them and always thought it was just a phase....but like I said, it’s been maybe about a year now. My best friend is about eight months younger than me and she is straight and has a boyfriend. However, lately we’ve been kissing each other on the cheek, forehead, neck...as well as holding hands. Nothing serious. But each time we hangout and are together, I feel more and more attracted to her and sometimes just think, “God I want to
kiss you.” I’ve never done anything sexual with girl, yet alone makeout with one. But recently, I find myself thinking about women a lot and fantasizing.

Any advice?
Thanks for reading.

2006-10-16 20:40:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

how do people percieve south central l.a home of the 1992 l.a riot? watts hom eof the riots in the late 1960? or compton? what do u think it like? why? i just woul dlike to know what people think of my hometown....? thanx

2006-10-16 18:35:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Please don't answer their questions, they will go away if they don't get the attention. the only reason they come here is for attention if you ignore them they will go away, and "NO", no matter how funny it seems to you it's not right, every time you answer their questions it gives them power. We can't give them power to trash us. Answering any question that they have will only give them power, even if you respond in disagreement or hate. Please don't answer their questions, even if you hate them. That is what brings them back anyone that answers their questions, even one brings them back. Just Say No.

2006-10-16 18:27:10 · 14 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I JUST RECENTLY MOVED FROM TEXAS TO KENTUCKY. I CAME OUT TO A CO WORKER. SHE SAID SHE WAS FINE WITH IT. BUT I HAVE NOT FROM HER SINCE. SOULD I CONTACT HER?

2006-10-16 18:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by smmere2000 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 17:39:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I was just wonderin whenever i hear slang about dawgs and what not, and trying to learn Russian, and listening to the sounds certain words make, and i kinda think that we Americans have weird words. ie, pelican, rooster, hot dog, movie, caca peepee, slang, Boo, cuz, cheeze, cantaluope, why do we look at a four legged animal with a main and a long neck a HORSE, like hurry fast....look....horse did u miss it, and then look at a cow and watch it Not move and then see its mouth move in a o formation, then we copy and put sound to it and get CCCOOOWWW.

2006-10-16 17:37:33 · 4 answers · asked by the sponge 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

From our childhood, we are asked questions like

What is our favorite color. What is our favorite movie genre. Do you believe or not believe in god.

When given a limited number of choices, we feel pressured to choose one to be able to define ourselves and appear assertive.

I personally think some questions in life do not and cannot be answered because 1, we do not have enough information and 2, when our choices are limited, our decision is not based on logic but by what feels right.

What is your opinion?

2006-10-16 17:03:00 · 9 answers · asked by leikevy 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Let's just say that the opportunity presents itself, and that both of us are willing, do I take it or not? I don't plan on being gay,or even feel like gay might be the sexuality for me, but should I do it?

2006-10-16 16:58:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 16:56:43 · 6 answers · asked by PDC yooper 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Just because my hair is pink and I wear an earring doesn't mean I'm gay, I'm straighter than a nail. I have some gay friends but I don't have feelings for them.

2006-10-16 16:56:17 · 31 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I am Mexican, Cuban, American Indian, Polish, and maybe even a little White. Call me what you want, but I am not a HISPANIC.

2006-10-16 16:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-16 16:49:59 · 17 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 16:29:06 · 25 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

The way I see it is if you are straight then you don't care to put "orientaion: straight". It seems a little curious to me.....This girl flirts with me a lot and I hope that she is bi or something. Any thoughts?

2006-10-16 16:21:16 · 13 answers · asked by Betty Sue 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 16:06:35 · 21 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I know he has won a GLADD award, but that doesn't mean he himself is gay. I just saw him listed on a list of "openly" gay celebrities and I was like hmmm... is this true? It's really stumped me!

2006-10-16 16:01:19 · 6 answers · asked by Jen M 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 15:53:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 15:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by mijesus66 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I am going as a Dominatrix for Halloween this year. I was trying to find some thigh high boots to go with my outfit. I have no ideas other than a riding crop and a spiked choker. How else does the dominatrix look? Can I have long black curly hair or do I have to have short butch type hair? Black nails or red? What kinds of things should I say? I am going to be this because I have no idea what they are about.. (I am the more submissive/equal type) I thought this would be fun to step "outside of the box" but husband thinks I'm gonna look like ****, any suggestions so I don't look slutty..(I already bought the costume from ebay and it is probably short). Thanks :)

2006-10-16 15:51:14 · 6 answers · asked by Cortney & Nathan 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I hope so. But thanks to shows like Jerry Springer, what media attention we HAVE got has been negative and embarassing. Do you ever think we'll become more mainstream in a positive way?

2006-10-16 15:45:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

do you like to sleep?

2006-10-16 15:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 15:40:32 · 14 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 15:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Jez 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-16 15:36:51 · 18 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 15:36:39 · 36 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

are you wearing sox and what color??

barefeet here with red toenails

2006-10-16 15:35:29 · 31 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-16 15:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

corona, coors, bud..or sam adams..??what is your prefer taste?..guiness?

i prefer corona, coors light, heineken..

2006-10-16 15:27:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

i do..i still have shirts, socks, and belts i still have when i was younger...ha im only 22..but yeah..

no need for shopping..maybe when i go out..but i gotta enough clothes that fit..

2006-10-16 15:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I had never showered in school and I played basketball through all of high school and college.

In HS practice was our last class of the day, so I showered at home. In college, I waited until I got back to my dorm or hotel room, if it were a road game.

It wasn't until I went to Marine bootcamp that I was forced to strip down & shower in front of another man. At first, you think all eyes are on you, then you realize everyone is feeling the same way and you get use to it.

I did have the same feeling the first time I showered at my gym. It went away pretty quickly. I figured none of the guys at the gym knew me outside of the gym, so who cares. But, it comes back if I have to shower infront of somebody I know outside the gym.

Strange huh?

2006-10-16 15:21:02 · 9 answers · asked by Intel 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups