2006-10-16 16:06:35 · 21 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sorry spelling, thanks, advances
2006-10-16 16:17:14 · update #1
maybe they just like you that much that they just can't take no for an answer. ask Kathy maybe she sould know ;)
2006-10-16 16:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by brandy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They perceive a hand of platonic friendship as a sexual advantage. Some people have never separated platonic friendship from sex, and that is why (if you really delve into their private worlds) they have so few friendships (especially same-sex ones). People get tired of their games after while after wondering if they really like them as friends or were just trying to take advantage of them sexually all along -- a quick roll in the hay, so to speak, instead of deep, abiding friendship.
2006-10-17 00:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tracer you have a smoldering sexual look in all your pictures, I would imagine that is even stronger when seeing you in person. I think Mother Theresa would make a pass at you!
If I were you I would let one pass be okay but tell them and if they cross the line again I would cool the friendship.
2006-10-17 16:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to just remain friends with someone that you are attracted to or have feelings for.....I am the queen of this. Sometimes people use friendship as a means of having a deeper relationship with someone. I have done it a few times myself. Odds are that this person never had any intention on just being friends.
2006-10-16 23:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are fixated on you. They have potentially severe emotional problems, which they cope with by placing all their emotional needs (and the fulfilment thereof) in your hands. They have probably lived a thousand fantasies (some sexual, some not) with you in which you were compliant (among other things), and they are not willing to accept reality. To accept reality would be to lose a coping mechanism, and they are afraid to take that step. It is best not to foster this kind of behavior, of course.
2006-10-16 23:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tolsimir Wolfblood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people just can't get it through their head. I think a lot of times when someone says that they just want to be friends the other person views it more of a challenge to "get" that other person. Just keep telling them that if they can't accept the fact that you just want to be friends with them then you can't have anything at all to do with them.
2006-10-17 09:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by Scully 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean "sexual advances" not advantages. Hope that helps.
2006-10-16 23:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Here Today 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in this day in age, so many take for granted that everyone can be "friends with benefits." I think maybe you have to be more clear that you don't want any type of physical relationship.
2006-10-16 23:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like in the movies, where some people think that people who say "no" need to be pursued and broken down. When I say "no", I mean it, and I find offense in people with obviously poor boundaries.
2006-10-16 23:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you like someone, hope is the last thing you loose. And nothing beats a failure, but a trying.
2006-10-17 00:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by toybreaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a difference in interpretion as to what "friends" really means.
2006-10-16 23:12:58 · answer #11 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋